The Elusive G-Spot

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We have all heard of it and some of us have found it but unfortunately not all of us have and some don’t even believe that it exists.

So how did we find out that we have a G-Spot and what does it do.  We have a German gynaecologist Ernst Grafenberg to thank for his insights on the female anatomy and coming to the conclusion that yes indeed, we do have a G-Spot and it is one of women’s most pleasurable erogenous zones.

Stimulation of the G-Spot gives intense sexual arousal; powerful orgasms and can lead to potential female ejaculation, which is known to have health benefits.

For those that do not believe that there is a G-Spot, what is the harm of looking for it and maybe finding it and enjoying the benefits, it’s worth a try.

Firstly you need to be aroused to find it.  This is because there is an area just above the G-Spot called urethral sponge.  This contains a gland which swells and fills with fluid as you become aroused.

As the Skene’s gland swells and expands it causes the G-Spot to become more sensitive and protrude becoming more prominent in your vagina.

It has also been stated that the Skene glands are the source of female ejaculation, also known as squirting.  It is a clear fluid that squirts out of the vagina during orgasm. Some experts once believed it was urine but on further investigation including smell or even taste test they have insisted that it’s not pee. And that it showed characteristics of plasma from the Skene’s gland.

Heike Rodriguez is a female ejaculation educator expressed the following about the G-Spot and female ejaculation. “Every woman can (squirt). Every woman has a G-Spot. It doesn’t have so much to do with being in your body or being sex positive, it has to do with your emotions. The G-Spot is the emotional centre of our reproductive system. It has a lot to do with connecting intimacy with sex, with being able to let your emotions flow. With being willing to cry when you feel something intensely. That’s not something that’s really out there as a part of sex. And I think that’s why a lot of women can’t do it; they haven’t connected their hearts with their vaginas. A lot of women have trauma stored in their body and it makes some parts of their body inaccessible.”

So where is it and how do you find it. It is in the same location for all women but some may find it harder to find than others. Again, remember you have to be aroused to find it and let yourself go.

The G-Spot is around 5-7.5cm inside the vagina on the anterior wall. When you feel your G-Spot you will notice that it feels slightly different to the rest of your vagina. It may feel a little dimpled and will feel very soft. g-spot-cross-section

Use a couple of your fingers, curl them backwards and slide into your vagina around 5cm or maybe a little more, and you should feel your G-Spot.

Now that you have found your G, now what! Experiment and play with it. Don’t be concerned if you don’t ejaculate it’s not a guarantee that you will, it’s all about finding the G-Spot and enjoying it. Just feel the pleasure of what this wonderful spot in your body and what it is doing to you. Use a vibrator to stimulate it whilst playing with your clitoris doubling your pleasure and reaching more intense orgasms than you have before. There is an extensive range of vibrators available now especially designed to hit the G mark and much more. G-Spot Vibrator

So get in touch and I mean literally get in touch with your vagina and have some fun and if you have a partner you can try lots of different positions so that they can find it as well.

GGGGiddy up!

by Jenifer Grant