Men say they don’t understand women, well we are here to help with a couple of things that most of us would love you to do without having to ask. 

There is a large majority of us that believe that our sex lives are the best they can be but if we really want to look further into ourselves maybe we can go from hot to sizzling in just a few simple ways.

We love it when you whisper in our ear

It might be sweet nothings, seductive connotations, telling us how sexy we are to down-right dirty talk this is the best time to do it. We are feeling our most sexiest when we are in the midst of passion. We want to hear those sensual or naughty things in our ears.

A woman’s face lights up when she is told she is beautiful

We all want to feel beautiful and love being told that we are, especially when it comes out of the blue. It doesn’t have to be whilst we are in the middle of fooling around it can be whilst we are watching a movie and you simply lean over and tell us that we are beautiful and well, why stop there tell us why you think we’re beautiful. This really isn’t that complicated, who doesn’t want to be told they are beautiful?!

Don’t assume what we like, ask us

If we tell you we like something then we like it, even though I will admit some of us may tell a white lie every now and again, and we know we shouldn’t. If you ask us and we tell you what we want you to do and it’s not what you have been doing all along don’t take it as you were doing it wrong take it as you are pleasing us in the way we really need at that point in time.

We should all be honest and not tell those little white lies or not share what we do and don’t like because if we don’t and there is something we actually don’t enjoy it is just going to keep going and not be a pleasurable experience in the bedroom.

Women need foreplay and for some of us we need a lot of foreplay.

This could be for many different reasons like the fact we need lubrication down there to really feel the wonders of you and natural lubrication can take time. Yes, you can use lube but why not have a little more fun playing with each other with foreplay first.

Obviously, we all do like a quickie from time to time but the feeling of having your magically and loving or lustful hands all over us will really get us hot and ready. Just don’t always been in a rush.

Orgasms are for two

It doesn’t matter if you climax before we do, just remember that we still want one as well. You can use your hands, mouth or why not bring our/your favourite toy into the mix to help us get there. Bringing in a toy doesn’t mean that you haven’t satisfied us it means that you care enough to make sure we are satisfied.

Ok, now for a little women confusion

We love it when you are in control or take control, ravish our body’s take us at your will but we also love to be in control as well. We want to please you and take over your body to provide you with extra stimulations as well. So let’s take turns on control, it will be fun.

Sometimes we want the romance like candles around the bathtub waiting for us when we get home from work, other times we might like it if you want to get naughty whilst we are out on a date. Maybe even a little hand play under the table at a restaurant, or have the remote of an egg vibrator and tease us with it whilst we are wearing it.

Listen to our pleasure

Know the difference between our “oh yeah, that’s good”, “keep it going, don’t stop” to us changing the position a little because we may have had an “ouch” moment but didn’t want to spoil the momentum.

Please remember we have very sensitive areas on our body, say hello to our clitoris. This magic bean is amazing, we love it more than what you do. YES WE DO! For a lot of women this is the only way they can reach orgasm some are lucky enough to be able to achieve orgasm vaginally as well. But we all love our clit, and we all know how to touch it to get the best feeling out of it. We practice on ourselves, just like you do. So if we ask you to touch it softly that is what you should do, if we want a particular motion, do it. Listen to us and it will work.

We are really not all that complicated, you just have to be willing to except that we are different and we will always want to change things up a little to make sure that we are both having a really good time in the bedroom. We want to make sure that you will find us desirable today and tomorrow and the future.