In my professional opinion as a woman who has tried the lion’s share of all the vibrators on the planet, the best way to introduce a vibrator into your lovemaking is to go with a non-threatening vibrator. Non-threatening vibrators are vibrators that don’t look like penis replacements, but still get the job done. Your man won’t feel threatened if you incorporate a toy that is fun, but won’t replace his, and your, very best friend.
My best recommendations for non-threatening, non-penis-replacing vibrators are…
The We Vibe 4 Plus
I have long been a fan of the We Vibe series: a continuously improving vibrator model designed for couples. This ‘for couples’ vibrator has a very innocuous look with its signature U-shape, but it packs a serious sexual punch as it stimulates the clitoris AND the g-spot during intercourse. Of course never forget your partner—the vibrations are fun for him as well.
The We Vibe 4 Plus is the latest instalment in the We Vibes series, and they’ve really taken the cake with this one. Now the We Vibe isn’t just built for pleasure together, it’s got an iPhone app that allows couples to stimulate each other even kilometres away, or in the next room… or while at work.
This vibrator isn’t the cheapest on the market, but hey, how much are multiple orgasms worth to you? Luckily, here at Femplay, we offer a steep discount, making this couples’ play toy an orgasmic bargain.
Micro Purple Jelly Butterfly
For couples making their first foray into couples vibrators and who aren’t looking to make a large (albeit sexy) investment, I recommend the Micro Purple Jelly Butterfly. This over-the-thigh-sky-high orgasm generator is a steal at $40, but an even better deal at our current sale price of $24.95.
The butterfly is super-easy to use. Simply put the straps around your thighs and place the butterfly on top of your clitoris. Then perform your lovemaking ritual as usual, but with this clitoral-stimulating, orgasm-inspiring addition.
Minna Ola – Silicone Rechargeable Vibrator
The Minna Ola vibrator has a more traditional shape and use than the ones listed above, but still maintains the innocuous styling found in the We Vibe. This penis-shaped vibrator looks innocent enough, but its ‘handle’ allows you or your partner to squeeze and control the pressure and speed. This natural-feeling ‘remote’ has no buttons and instead reacts to your touch, making it the perfect bedroom addition for couples.
The Ola can send you out of this world without looking like something that just walked off a porn set. Its relatively small and plain-looking shaft will help ensure that your man feels in control, not replaced.
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