Oral sex can be the dirty talk that comes out of our mouths which is kinky and can make you feel pretty horny, but this time I am talking about the really fun stimulating OMG…Oral sex.

The very pleasurable sex act which is performed by a person on another person using their tongue, lips, throat, mouth and sometimes teeth.

The names for these two sex acts are Cunnilingus (female) and Fellatio (male). Both words are a mouth full as it is, no wonder it is oral play and we have our made up our own names for them.

Cunnilingus the term comes from the Neo-Latin words for the vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua). Generally we use slang terms instead of the true word. For example: eating pussy; carpet munching; muff-diving.

Fellatio which comes from the Latin fellare meaning to suck, but the most common slang words used are: blowjob, BJ, giving head and sucking off.

The slang words or the nicknames that we have for whatever act we are performing are by far better than the original names. Imagine telling your partner I am going to perform cunnilingus on you. I don’t think that would get you or them in the mood. And a lot of us would have our own special nicknames or codes to have the deed done to themselves by their partners.

Oral sex can be extremely sexually arousing for both males and females. And it doesn’t have to be the receiver that is receiving the only pleasure. A lot of people become highly sexual when they are performing oral sex on a partner. Be it because you love pleasuring them or simply enjoy using your mouth, tongue, teeth and don’t forget to use your hands as well.

Giving a blowjob or eating pussy can be a form of foreplay prior and during the act of sexual intercourse but it can also be the only form of sex. For example: If you do not want to have intercourse due to religion or personal beliefs before marriage then this job is perfect for you.

If you don’t find the act of giving enjoyable there are now flavoured sprays and gels available to increase your enjoyment. Even if you do love it adding these to your oral play can be a lot of fun as they really do taste great. Chocolate and strawberry are my favourite flavours.

But if you don’t have a partner at the moment, and you still have oral urges don’t despair there are toys available for you to give you the desired affect.

For the guys all you need is a mouth masturbation sleeve and there is a huge range available. From the small compact to the porn star replicas like the Fleshlight range.

And for the girls, well we are spoilt for choice a little as we can go for a toy that can mimic the licking sensation like the Clit Kisser or any clitoral vibe that takes our fancy.

When it comes to doing the job at hand, make sure you give it your all as there is an art to giving good head and that’s what we all want to give and receive. If you’re not sure if you are doing it right simply ask what they like and practice. The more you give the better you will be at it.

But the rule is: If you give, thou should also receive.

by Jenifer Grant