Simply No Way!

Masturbation isn’t only for single people for when the urge arises, it’s for everyone. You can be part of a couple and still need the satisfaction of pleasing yourself.

Your partner maybe away or you’re not seeing that that day, or maybe they are not in the mood and you are. What are you supposed to do? Wait till you’re with them! No, we take the matter into our own hands and enjoy and explore our bodies.

But there doesn’t have to be a reason to masturbate. If your in the mood your in the mood. And masturbation can make us better lovers. We are more in tune with what we want and what pleases us.

There is a movie called ’40 days and 40 nights’ when a guy decides to give up on masturbation and sex for 40 days. It’s a funny movie but in my opinion unrealistic. There is no way I could deny myself pleasure for a great length of time, if at all.

For myself it doesn’t matter where I am. I can always slip into the bathroom and have a quick play to knock the edge off. I even have a vibrator necklace I wear that helps a lot and the best part no-one can tell it’s a vibrator.

Then there is also mutual masturbation. You and your partner masturbate each other. This is a great way to explore their bodies and also understand what turns them on the most.

And of course vice versa, you can tell them what you enjoy. Use your hands or mouth or whip out some of your favourite toys. Don’t let the fun stop there you can also put a show on for each other and play with yourself whilst they watch.

Put a little strip show on for them, even tie them up so you know they won’t be able to do anything but watch. Then seductively show them how you please yourself. You can tease them to any point you want.

Show them how you use some of your toys and how good they make you feel. If you want to stop just before you orgasm and then attack them and finish yourself off or you can play until you have an earth shattering orgasm, it’s all up to you and the mood you are in. And also, because you can see how turned on they are watching you and you know how much they want to have you add this just adds to your stimulation. It’s a bit of a power play, but WOW what a turn on.

Masturbation is a healthy and fun activity that you can do alone or with your partner. Why would you ever stop, couple or no couple!

by Jenifer Grant