With the Fifty Shades of Grey movie being released there might be more adventure going on in some bedrooms at the moment, so with that in mind I thought I would talk about the exhilaration of being tied up.

Something as simple as being tied up by someone you trust can be an incredible experience in so many different ways.

The most important part is the trust. If you have that special someone that you have no insecurities with or fear from and that you know completely within yourself and your relationship that they would do you no harm in anyway. This is a powerful part of a relationship.

The excitement you will feel in every single part of your being when your trust partner starts to tie you up is a physical and emotional stimulation that can drive you to climax without anything else being done to you.

Once tied up and even better blindfolded you are at their mercy. They can do anything to you. Hence the trust that is required.

Laying or standing, however you have been tied up and then suddenly you feel their hot breath near your skin, then a kiss, a lick and then feeling their mouth running tenderly and hungrily all over your body. Savouring every taste sensation and their excitement growing as they not only feel your excitement but they can see it. Your body is buckling and arching with sheer pleasure.

Time to mix it up with a little more teasing by running an ice-cube all over your most sensitive areas and they watch you and feel your skin bubble with delight.

Even tied up you have so much power, more than you would think. The partner who has control over your pleasure will be excited by every single sound and part movement you do. If you moan, groan; whisper each one will put the most seductive smile on their face. Not that you will be able to see it if you’re blindfolded, but that is the best way to experience total exhilaration.

You are letting them explore your whole body with no limitations (unless you have specified some beforehand). It can and does feel totally liberating to be able to surrender your body to complete desire.

Obviously, there are so many fun things to tantalize you with from ice and lots of different toys, whips, paddles and their own bodies. It is your choice on how far you want to let it go.

But from experience there is nothing like giving your partner your complete trust to let them completely seduce you. Their aim is to please you, really please you. They want you to be so out of your mind crazy hot and horny they will do whatever it takes to get you there.

Once there they may put you out of your pleasured misery and make you climax like you have never done before or they could push you over the edge that you are so crazy that you could explode out of their restraints and you attack them to get the release that you so desperately need.

Either way you are both going to have an unbelievable sexually erotic experience, one that you won’t be able to stop at doing only once. And of course you can take turns.

Let yourself go and feel exhilarated!