I recently meet up with a friend that I hadn’t seen for quite some time and she asked me what am I doing now. When I told her she became shy, even though she has always known me as being a very openly sexual person.

She told me that she had taken her 18-year-old daughter to a sex shop as she wanted to purchase something for her and said the experience was one of embarrassment and unfamiliar territory.

I asked what she meant by unfamiliar territory and she informed me that she has never bought or used any sex toys before and is only no looking at doing so for her daughter.

I was a little surprised that at 40 years old she had never experienced the joys of sex toys and also exploring her own body to find what she likes and doesn’t like.

They didn’t buy anything from the sex shop and they started to look online as they felt less daunted of the prospect that the “perverts” (her words) in the shop wouldn’t follow her and her daughter outside.

Whilst online window-shopping she realised that as she has recently become single that she should look at buying something for herself. But being new to it she really didn’t know what to look for.

This is one of the reasons that we have special packs aimed for the beginners. For example: The first timers bundle. And why we write as much information as we can in our descriptions of our products so that it helps you know the product.

The majority of our products (we can’t try them all) are tried and tested by my-self and our staff (yes, we do have quite the collection). We are honest and true to what we write and sell.

She has now looked at our site and has informed me that she feels so much more confident about taking the first steps into adult toys.

As I have known the joys of toys whilst being a single woman to also including them with a partner I have always understood that there are woman that have not been interested in toys. This is of course personal choice.

But I believe that you have to try something before you decide that it’s not for you. But from personal experience once you try you will find your new best friend.

This is exactly what has happened with my friend. She has purchased a few items and she has told me that she wished that she had thought about doing it years ago as she is now experiencing a whole new sexual world.

This is part of what adult toys can do for you. They can liberate you from yourself and teach you things about your body that you didn’t know existed.

And isn’t that something that we all want and need!

So if this is your first time buying or your 100th you can find something different to try out with Femplay.