I believe that everyone loves a home-cooked meal there is something sensual about it.

You cook your potential or your current lover a wonderfully delicious home-cooked meal and no matter what sex you are, you are you are going to feel good about it. A beautiful meal lovingly prepared just for you, oh how sexy is that.

Sometimes we can also have the belief that the way to a man’s heart is through his penis. Well, of course it is. He is human after all. Why wouldn’t he love to be romantic with his lover? It is not only men who love sex women love it just as much.

So why do we make cooking a great meal so vanilla, so regular, so normal. Why are we not embracing the sensual pleasure of cooking for our lover?

Let’s have some fun in the kitchen and let it lead into the bedroom afterwards.

There are lustfully decedent cook books that we can play with and to make it even sexier is to be wearing a hot little lingerie number and maybe even a small cute apron. When he walks in the door and sees you dressed like that, he knows that he is in for a fantastic night.

The kitchen is no longer solely restricted to the woman. Now in the 21^st century more and more men are feeling a lot more comfortable in the kitchen with an apron on. (Hopefully that’s all he has on)

The old saying a woman’s place is in the kitchen doesn’t seem to be in the modern man’s vocabulary. They want to contribute to the relationship and this can include feeding the woman he loves. Maybe, this comes from the hunter and gathers from cave men. (No, I’m not going to talk about the cave man paleo diet.)

I have to say women are enjoying being spoilt like this. It could be said that it may almost be or if not more, as much as we love cooking for our men.

Well to be honest I think I love it a little more. There is something pretty sexy about coming home from work and having my man in the kitchen preparing a meal that I know he has made with love and will taste delicious.

Obviously, with our busy lives it is not possible to always make it a sensual and sexual experience but even on the “normal” days my man is still making a beautiful meal that he has planned out knowing what I enjoy and feeling good afterwards.

Don’t we all feel satisfied after a wonderful meal? And isn’t it funny that we also feel that way after a romp in between the sheets. No wonder the two have been intertwined.

Yes, a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and his penis but it is also his heart. This is why the stereotype that we girls belong in the kitchen has almost been squashed. We are all lovers, lovers in the kitchen and in the bedroom. Go and feed yourself with love.