I think most of us have heard of Blue Balls at least once or twice in our lives. Maybe from a partner, lover or even just a fling. It can be from when a guy is all hot and ready to go and doesn’t get the release he desires, for whatever reason. It may be that their partner is not in the mood, they are edging themselves, they have been watching porn without having their own happy ending as they may have been interrupted, or there could be any number of reasons. Guys, you can simply get blue balls for no apparent reason.
From my experience and research on this subject, apparently it can be quite painful to have Blue Balls. I have had previous lovers who have even tried to make it an excuse of why I should help them as it’s such a painful experience, and up until recently I didn’t really believe in the blue ball pain and discomfort, let alone that I had to ‘help’ them out.
Blue balls are not just a poor attempt to try and get you in the sack. Though it doesn’t happen to all men, it is a very real condition that results predominately from a prolonged state of sexual arousal.
When a guy is physically turned on, blood flows to his penis, which is what gives him an erection, and his testicles, causing them to swell. If he doesn’t ejaculate, there is a build-up of pressure, and his supersensitive balls feel the brunt of it. The sensation can range from a mild ache to something along the lines of being kicked in the balls pain. The bottom line is, it’s not dangerous, and he can deal with it, whether that means giving himself a helping hand or just waiting it out. The blood will eventually drain, and any discomfort will disappear on its own. It is not an urgent matter that has to be dealt with by their partner straight away, but you can if you want to.
The reason it’s called Blue Balls is due to the fact that the blood that’s been in the scrotum for a while loses oxygen and can give the appearance of a bluish tinge, to me it still sounded like something guys were making up, until recently.
Due to work commitments my partner and I had been apart for a couple of months and when we finally were together again he just wanted to tease me till I would be just at the brink of climax and then stop. He kept doing this over a period of 2 days, and asked me to promise him that I wouldn’t finish myself off.
I kept my promise but by the 3rd day I was in pain. I couldn’t completely understand why, but my clitoris felt so uncomfortable and so not right I felt like I needed to get the release that he had been denying me for the last few days and I told him so. He still wanted to tease me, but after explaining to him how much I felt like I needed it he complied.
Unfortunately, it wasn’t over then. I still needed more, it was like my clit had become its own being and needed all the attention onto her.
My partner then laughed and said, “Now you know what it is like to have Blue Balls”. OMG, do I have Blue Clit? Is this a real thing? So of course I went onto the internet and sure enough there is information on Blue Clit.
It is a little different for women as it is because of unfinished sexual arousal or sexual frustration as our clitoris swells when we are turned on, especially with days of teasing. Luckily for us ladies, it would be rare for it to occur for no apparent reason like the guys, thank goodness.
The experience lasted a couple of day for me and now that I have the knowledge that this phenomenon is real, I will be doing everything I can never to never have it occur again. Yes, my partner can tease me as much as he wants but if he doesn’t want to relieve me, I will just look after it myself.
Take it from my experience ladies, you don’t want this to happen to you!