The Benefits of Dating Older Men and Women

The way men and women handle themselves in a relationship is very important but does dating someone older than you make a big or little difference and how is the sex?!

I believe there are pro’s and con’s for both and we have to remember not everyone has the same sexual appetite as we are all individuals with different thoughts and feelings about sex.

First thing you have to realise is if they are older and you are younger, with this they are already feeling pretty damn good that they have a younger partner, it’s the nature of the beast.

We can also understand that the majority of older men and woman have patience, and this carries on into the bedroom as well. They want to enjoy foreplay with you and don’t believe it is a quick kiss and let’s get into it. They will take their time and this doesn’t always means that it starts in the bedroom.

It can start way before the bedroom it can start with a little romance, a simply kiss on the lips when meeting up for a date, to their hand just staying that little extra longer on your waist, or the touch of the hand as you walk into the restaurant. They know about seduction and how to play games without them turning into adolescence games. They want to drive you crazy and then and only then do they usually give you everything that you are desiring.

They are more comfortable with themselves and their bodies and as they have had a little more experience with a few tricks up their sleeves. Let them explore your body and use some of these tricks that they have accumulated over the years of experience. Let them teach you a thing or two, as you will want to please them as well.

When it comes to older men a lot of them still believe in ladies first in all the right ways. They don’t just want you to have a mind blowing orgasm they want you to have many and they want to know that they can do that to you.

For older women they don’t want their younger lovers to climax too quickly, well most of the time and it can be a little tricky for them to keep them under control until they are ready. It may not always work but they love it when they are ready to go again within a few minutes.

With this in mind it can take older men longer to come compared to younger men. Whilst we all love a good quickie every now and again it is definitely not something that you always want.

For some woman it depends on what kind of orgasm they have. If they have a clitoral orgasm they may have to wait awhile till they are ready to go for the next round, but a vaginal orgasm they can still keep it going until their partner climaxes as well.

Older men and women realises and understand that sex is more than just intercourse, it is about attraction, seduction and a little experience. So why not get yourself a little more educated by dating someone older. Enjoy the lessons and make sure your practice with vigilance and provide them with pleasure as well. Remember, they are dating you a younger person for a reason as well.