Let’s Embrace the BJ

If there’s anything in the world that men can agree on, it’s that most of them love receiving blow jobs. For a lot of guys, getting a blow job it’s the ultimate sex act and making blow jobs more fun has a lot to do with enjoying yourself. No one likes to get oral from someone who’s cringing, gagging, or doing it out of obligation.

Even women who truly enjoy giving head don’t love it all the time. Giving a blow job isn’t easy, there’s hair and balls and smells and anyone with a gag reflex can attest to the fact that putting a penis too far back in your throat can increase the possible chance for upchuck tenfold. Sure, giving a blow job to someone we care about is great, but when you get down to particulars, it’s not like it’s something every woman is just dying to do.

As with most things, you can make giving blow jobs more enjoyable. Even if you don’t like them at all, you can spice up things a bit, and maybe, learn to think they’re not a job after all. Blow jobs will never be a piece of cake, but with these few tips you can at least learn to enjoy them more than you have ― or love them more than you did, if you’re a big fan already.

Try Something Different

If you think giving a blow job is simply sliding his penis in and out of your mouth, then you’re definitely failing both you and your partner. Blow jobs should be fun for both of you! Lick, use your hands, play with his balls, incorporate toys, there is a huge range of different toys that you can add whilst going down. You could look at anal toys, cock rings or even a vibrator to tease his balls. Even though your mouth is full you can still talk dirty to him about how much you can’t wait to get that big cock of his in your mouth, or whatever pops into your mind. If you branch out and experiment with new things, you’re already getting the mundane out of the way and that’s fun for both of you.

There is No Harm in using a Little or a lot of Lubricant

The best blow jobs involve a lot of lube. But if your mouth isn’t exactly as wet as it could be, then you need lube to help you out. Using a flavoured lube will not only make it better for your partner, but it will take the pressure off of you to try to get your mouth up to maximum wetness. And who doesn’t want some strawberry lube swirling around in their mouth?

Want more Flavour

Have a little tasty fun whilst giving a blow job, chocolate body paint is a tasty treat. Paint your man’s body with this delicious chocolate and go to town on him. Whether your choose chocolate or whipped cream, adding something yummy to the equation will make giving your partner a blow job a tasty experience, especially if you’re not down with the general flavour or smell of that region. Another great way to increase the flavour enjoyment out of giving heads is with the range of Good Head gels and sprays. I promise you they taste amazing, just try not get too carried away on how much you want to use. I did once and it did get a little messy J

Have Confidence that you are doing a Good job

When you go into giving head you should go in with the mindset of conquering the task at hand. You are down there for a reason, one you obviously want to be there and two you want to enjoy yourself as much as you want to please your man. So take control of your abilities and know that you are doing a good job, don’t feel self-conscious and enjoy.

Put on a Show

Part of his pleasure is watching you so put on a show and give him something to really enjoy. If he can see that you are enjoying yourself he will as well, but be warned he may come a little quicker.

Feel the Power

I believe that giving a blow job is empowering, you are holding his most precious appendage in your hand and your mouth, and he is obviously trusting you to treat it well.

Empowerment comes with ownership of a situation and total autonomy, in which the control and decision making is in your hands. If you choose to give your partner a blow job and don’t do it out of some sort of sexual obligation, it is indeed empowering. You’re deciding for yourself what you want to do with your body, and if that involves putting a man’s penis in your mouth, then how can it not be empowering? Embrace the hell out of the moment.

It’s not all about Him, Think of Yourself as Well

Just because you’re the one currently giving, doesn’t mean you should ignore yourself – nor should your partner. If you want to really enjoy giving a blow job, then you need to get something out of it, too. Why not try incorporating toys, like inserting an egg vibrator and giving him the controls can be a lot of fun.

To Swallow or Not to Swallow

This is definitely your personal choice, you may not like the taste or feel of semen or you simply just can’t go that far without gagging. There also can be other factors of why you may not enjoy his taste.

There are a few foods that can help with the taste of his spunk, you just have to convince him that it is good for him in more ways than one. A couple of examples for your man to eat or drink are pineapple Juice as it’s well-known to increase the tasting pleasures of sperm. It’s almost like a sugar hit but without the sugar. You may not believe this one but celery is also pretty good. Unfortunately, they do have to eat and drink it for a couple of days for you to get the desired effect. This may come down to how much he wants you to enjoy swallowing.

A Couple of Things Your Man Shouldn’t Do

Pushing your head down, this is a big turn off for a lot of woman as the gag reflexes are going to really come into play if he is pushing it further than you want or can go. If he is doing this and you don’t enjoy it you have to tell him immediately so that it doesn’t continue.

Demanding a blow job, never ever is this acceptable unless you are in a Sub/Dom relationship. If you don’t want to you don’t have to, it’s your mouth you and you alone have the right to put whatever you want in it.

One of the best parts of oral sex is the feeling of intimacy and when done correctly the enjoyment for both parties. Always remember it is a two way street, if he wants to receive he has to give as well.

Try any of these tips and open up and enjoy!