May the Month to Masturbate

May is National Masturbation Month which provides an excuse for us to update our collection of joyful pleasure accessories, our sex toys. (Not that we really need an excuse)

As we were all once newbies we will start with, what is masturbation?!

Masturbation is the act of stimulating the genitals and other body parts to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure. This may lead to orgasm or climax but doesn’t always. The first thing that you will and should use are your hands and fingers. Start by massaging, caressing and touching either the penis, clitoris and vagina and any other body part that you feel like exploring. There is no wrong bit to play with, if it’s yours you can play with it.

Masturbation is one of the most natural acts that we can perform on ourselves. Just about every person that has past puberty is enjoying it. And why not, it feels great and it’s the perfect way to find out what our bodies are all about.

When we go through the changes of life the first being puberty we notice all the changes in our bodies and this can interest us and trigger a need to explore our changing body parts. Whilst not all people start to masturbate to an orgasm at this age, they may still just have a wonder around to see what is going on.

As we get a little older and more interesting feelings and sensations are happening we may suddenly feel more urges not only from our bodies but also our minds. Whilst this is completely normal the majority of people don’t want to talk about it to anyone. A lot of people want to keep it very private and unfortunately some may feel shame that they are feeling this way.

Keeping your masturbation to yourself is your right and you don’t have to tell the world what you are doing to your body. Remember it is your body and you can enjoy it however you like. There is no reason to feel shame or guilt to the feelings and yearnings to masturbate.

Once you start to feel the amazing sensations of your own body you may want to step it up a notch and add adult toys to mix. There is there is something for everyone from the beginner to the more advanced.

The sex toy industry is always evolving with sexual happiness and wellbeing and anything related to it. They are looking at the changes in social standings and how it changes constantly, as well as what both men and women want. With this the ever increasing market of adult toys available is amazing we are all spoilt with choice.

With better materials like silicone, cyberskin and glass just to name a few anybody can indulge in purchasing and playing with a toy, Including anyone who suffers from sensitive ski, we all want to have the best materials for our private parts.

But the changes don’t stop there. Style, design, speed and power have all greatly improved over the years and the manufacturers are really looking at what we want to play with. What not only looks good but feels amazing. Toys can be used alone or with a partner both in foreplay and also mutual masturbation this can assist with adding more intimacy to a relationship.

Masturbation has many wonderful benefits, the obvious being the pleasure we receive from it but it also aids in developing an understanding of what we do and don’t like sexually which can assist us when or if we become sexually active. Even when you are sexually active with a partner there is no reason not to continue to masturbate whenever the need arises.

Depression and stress can also be alleviated by masturbation, sometimes a quick play can be just the trick to get you out of a funk. A long day at work and your mind is on overdrive and you can’t sleep, guess what is going to help you get to la la land?! Grab your favourite toy and let it do its job and it all depends on if you want a quickie or not (yes quickies whilst masturbating is also normal) you will be sleeping with a smile on your dial in no time.

So as its National Masturbation Month why not celebrate and remember that you are a sexual being and that you deserve sexual satisfaction. It doesn’t matter if by hand, vibrator, dildo or masturbation sleeve make sure you give yourself a few goes at having some big O’s this month.

Happy National Masturbation Month