I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: toys make sex better. It’s no different for lesbian couples. Don’t get me wrong, oral and manual sex are great, but if you really want to spice things up, you should try bringing some toys to the bedroom. While there are too many different toys out there for any one blog post to cover, I’ll try to get you started!

Strap Ons and Dildos

Whether we’re talking about fingers, dildos, strap ons or vibrators, penetration offers a lot of stimulation, and it’s no wonder that it feels good to almost everybody. Sure, you and your partner might get along just fine with oral sex and doing things by hand, so to speak, but sometimes your G-spot needs a little more.

Bringing a new strap-on or a dildo into the mix is an excellent way to liven things up! You might not think so if you haven’t tried one yet, but the ways that you can hit the G-spot by fucking with a strap-on are totally different from what your fingers can do. Some might find the dick-shaped strap-ons a little bit off-putting, but fortunately there are plenty of nicer looking ones out there, with more abstract—and more stimulating—shapes. My personal favourites are the vibrating strapless strap-ons, because you wear them in yourself, and you’ll both get off!

Massage Gear

What’s more sensual than an intimate massage? Done right, a good massage can be the epitome of foreplay and tease—or more. Of course, there are plenty of different ways to go about it, all of which are sexy, and plenty of which take little effort or prep time! All you really need are your hands and a partner who’s ready to relax, but if you want to go the extra mile, rub in some massage oil. It moisturises beautifully, smells wonderful, and, most importantly, makes skin feel even smoother and more velvety to the touch. The more tactile that you make the experience, the better it’ll go off, believe me!

You can even try out some massage tools like vibrating massagers and massage sponges. They can help you get down and massage that muscle and they provide a great sensation on the skin. I’m not going to beat around the bush either; nothing stimulates the clit like a massage wand, and that’s the perfect way to top a massage off!

Don’t Forget to Experiment

I’ve already gone over stuff like couples’ bondage and have done some writing on stimulating your erogenous zones. There’s a post on talking with your partner about sex, too! Communication and experimentation are critical to having satisfying sex. They’re especially helpful if you don’t know where to start, because you can find out what you both enjoy and fantasise about. Start with your shared interests and branch out from there!

Are you ready to have some mind blowing sex? You’re only a conversation and a couple of new toys away. Between strap ons, vibrators, massage wands, oils and the plethora of bondage gear that you have to choose from, you’ll find something good in no time!