Men, have you ever been a little envious that women have the G-Spot? That wonderful special sensitive area of their body that makes them have incredible orgasms.

Well you also have your own special spot that will bring you unbelievable orgasms, different from what you would normally feel. But the problem is a lot of men are afraid, intimidated, homophobic or just too masculine to even want to try it.

Why? Well a man’s special spot is inside his anus, it’s his prostate.

P is for Prostate which in Greek is literally “one who stands before”.  A healthy prostate is slightly larger than a walnut and it surrounds the urethra just below the urinary bladder.

Within the prostate, the urethra coming from the bladder is called the prostatic urethra and mergers with the two ejaculatory ducts. Its function is to secrete a milky looking fluid which is predominately made up of semen.

Men can achieve orgasms and ejaculate from prostate massage and/or anal sex. The reason for this is to stimulate the prostate you pass over the anal sphincter area which has many nerve endings and is particularly sensitive.

Do you want to deny yourself the pleasures the P-Spot can give you by being afraid or intimidated by it?  Why not try it solo first, take it slow use lube and investigate your body. So how do you find it? It’s the smooth, small bump that you feel after passing through the sphincter area by completely inserting the index finger. It is best to use your finger at first as you have the touch sensations and will know you have hit the spot. It usually has a soft texture to the touch. Stimulation is with light pressure like a massage. Start gentle and work your way up to your desired affect. But don’t forget the lube!

But be warned you might find it so enjoyable that you will want to incorporate it in your usual love making with your partner. This is when even more fun can begin. Talk to your partner about P-Spot stimulation and how you would like to explore it with them further. There are a number of different styles of sex toys and harnesses that can be added into your sex life. I would still suggest to keeping it slow, especially with toys. Small is your friend in the beginning and so is lube so don’t forget it. You will have to train your body to go from a finger to a toy and of course if you go for larger toys and then if you and your partner want to take it even further.

Go and liberate yourself, even if you do it solo just once at least you have experienced a whole new meaning to an amazing orgasm. It’s not going to hurt, well maybe a little but it’s a good hurt and it might just be worth it.

By Jenifer Grant