Intercourse is a very intimate thing that brings us closer together. And when it is good, it is great. But there are also times when it is not good, and that’s when it becomes a problem if you don’t communicate these issues with your partner.

But for those people who want to spice up their sex life, the question might be more around how long a sex session length should be. Well, the answer is that there is no hard and fast rule for how long these moments should go for – it’s all personal preference. The good news is that it’s entirely in your control. Your imagination is your only limit.

In saying that, here are some tips on how to make sure that your next session in the bedroom lasts even longer.

Know Your Partner’s Needs

When you have just started going out with someone, it can be difficult to know what they like and don’t like. And since sex is a subjective matter, it can be hard to know what you can and can’t do.

But if you learn what your partner likes, it will be easier to plan your next session. And if you are not sure what ‘floats their boat’, you can always ask them. There’s no shame in communicating about sex and it should always be an open activity!

Be Honest With Your Partner

While sex is a very intimate thing, it is also something that is important to both of you and each of you will have your own preferences and urges.

You need to be honest about your desires and needs. If you want to go for a longer session, then let your partner know that. Or if you want to have intercouse at another time, then be honest about it and get permission from your partner first. Honesty is always key. Trust us, this will also save a lot of frustration in the long run.

Know What Works for You

There are some people who only want to have sex for a short period of time, and that’s completely okay! Some people also prefer longer sessions but less regularly. It’s important to understand that everyone is different and there’s no set rule for how it should all look and feel or how long it should go for. At the end of the day, it’s all about what works for you and your partner.

Don’t Overdo It

While sex is great, there is such thing as overdoing it to the point where soreness and cramps can pop up. Always give your body a rest in-between sessions; you wouldn’t work out non-stop without a break, and sex is the same. You need to recoup and recover, giving yourself the energy you need to sustain that pleasurable bliss next time around.

Of course, if you’re also wanting to add more excitement to these experiences, sex toys can do wonders for anyone’s bedroom antics. Even better, we deliver directly to your doorstep, complete with discreet packaging. Perfect!

Among your social circles, there’s bound to be those that like gifts that are a little more ‘saucy’ or interesting. Even though Christmas is known for the heavy family vibes and childhood innocence, it doesn’t mean you have to throw your sexy secrets out for the holiday period. In fact, there are a few gifts up our sleeves that we think will make the perfect treat under the tree this year.

Lelo Sila

This suction vibrator is quite possibly the hottest thing going around this Xmas, bringing joy and cheer to vulvas across the globe  You and your lover are bound to enjoy this beauty with its 8 diverse settings, complete with gentle sonic waves for pleasure that will send you right over the edge.

Get the Lelo Sila here.

Autoblow A.I Machine with Mouth Sleeve

Yes, you read that right and it’s about to be the best blowjob you have ever had. Period.

This A.I machine brings its silicone mouth sleeve to the table, giving you loads of orgasmic fun through its 10 ‘experiences’ and 10 additional speeds. Oh, and it even has an ‘Almighty Edge’ button…

Get the Autoblow A.I Machine here.

A Whole Lot of Joy Christmas Mega Pack

What’s better than a sex toy? Five of them. Gift someone special the ultimate bundle of goodies featuring:

• Satisfyer Pro 2
• BodyWand Rabbit
• Jimmy Jane 2
• Flippy
• Penthouse Sweet Retreat

If that’s not enough to get panties dropping, we don’t know what is.

Get the Mega Pack here.

Nu Sensuelle 60SX AMP Silicone Bullet (Purple)

As the latest bullet-style vibe from Nu Sensuelle, this silicone miracle is a must-have for bedside drawers. Enjoy 12 speeds and 12 super-intense vibration modes backed by a 60SX AMP motor and waterproof finish. Pop it on the USB charger and you’re good for another session in no time.

Get the Nu Sensuelle 60SX AMP Silicone Bullet here.

Lelo – F1S V2 App Controlled Pleasure Console (Red)

This next-gen sexy toy features a masturbation sleeve that’s so techy you’ll feel like you’re orgasming in the future (or at least your partner will be). It comes backed with benefits like:

• Second-generation model
• Double the strength
• Lelo’s SenSonic Technology
• A window display
• Aluminium body and soft silicone interior
• Access to the official app
• 10 full-body sensors
• 4 programs to experiment with
• SDK for your own preferences.

Get the Lelo F1S V2 here.

Shop online for sex toys this Xmas

It’s not too late! We have a variety of goodies on offer through our secure website and will dispatch your order quickly. Get your purchase directly to your door with discrete packaging, just in time for it to make its subtle appearance under the tree (or pillow).

For help and guidance, feel free to get in touch with the Femplay team through our contact form or by giving us a call on 1800 071 267. We are always more than happy to answer questions about our products or provide recommendations. We also offer a price match guarantee, so there’s never been a better time or place to grab your sexy gifts.

Even the most exciting relationships need variety from time to time. As humans, our brains and sexual desires love to explore new sensations and novelties – and we’re all about embracing that.

The intense feelings that arise from trying something new can have a strong effect on your experiences, which often proves to be extremely satisfying. However, it takes the best gay sexy positions to really take your partner for a ride, so we’ve listed three of our favourites – and some toys to go with them.

How many of these positions (and their toy counterparts) have you tried?

 1. Doggy Style

This position can be used to start off with, or can be an excellent position to add to your repertoire. This position can be done on your back, on your side, or on your stomach. Start out by kneeling on the floor.

One of the most effective ways to enjoy a position is to try it in different ways. Try different ways to go from behind, but don’t get stuck in one particular way or you’ll never enjoy it. Once you find a position that you enjoy, then you’ll be more likely to use it, and it will give you a new way to connect with your partner. If you’re just getting into having sex, the first thing you should know is that there are many gay sex positions, but not all of them are for beginners.

If you’re a lesbian couple, a strap on can be the perfect gay sex toy here.

2. Missionary Position

Don’t listen to the haters. This position will always be a classic and can be done on your back or on your stomach, but it’s most often used on your back. It is one of the most common positions used by gay couples because it’s easy to do and you get the benefit of looking into their eyes at the same time. For extra fun, raise your hips (or your partner’s) to different levels.

You can even add in a suction vibrator for extra stimulation (for the females) or cock rings (for the lads).

3. The good, old 69

Despite its reputation, 69 is a great oral sex position, in which both partners get their portion of affection and tame their sexual desire. The aim is to keep your hands free, so you can caress each other’s best parts. Try anal plugs and vibrators to enhance the sensation.

Add gay sex toys to your bedroom fun

Of course, if you’re looking to spice things up, our range of sex toys and accessories can really kick things up a notch. Try your hand at our massagers or opt for our anal sex toys – there’s something for everyone on our website.

Shop online now at Femplay for discreet, easy shipping directly to your door. Your secret is safe with us.

We get it – mind-blowing sex often comes down to the positions used and just how much you “know” to get the job done. Well, in this article, we’re helping you hit those mega Os with our best sex positions for lesbians. Thank us later.

Lesbian sex positions are different from heterosexual ones, mostly because the vagina is obviously designed to specifically accommodate a penis. This means intercourse needs to be more creative, but it’s also even easier to get off simultaneously because of its nature.

The following list of sex positions will help you determine whether your partner likes being adventurous or prefers traditional positions with a twist.

The L

The L is a great way to give oral pleasure to your partner without worrying about them being able to see you. Essentially, one partner lays on their back while the other positions their vulva over the other’s face, facing away from the horizontal partner.

The partner that holds the horizontal position uses their tongue to massage the partner’s clitoris, offering an exciting twist to traditional positions.

Spooning

Believe it or not, the good, old spoon can still deliver plenty of pleasure. Simply lay down next to each other in this classic position. The big spoon wraps her leg over the little spoon and uses their hand to engage the clit. The big spoon can also place their arm under the little spoon’s top leg and stimulate them from behind.

This works so well because the little spoon is able to lay back and really enjoy the experience. So that both partners can get maximum pleasure, you may want to swap turns.

Double-ended dildos

Look, there’s no doubt that these sex toys will always be high on the must-have list for lesbians, as they’re fun and deliver loads of pleasure during use. If you and your partner enjoy vaginal or anal penetration, double dongs will leave you both riding the waves of intense orgasms.

To use them effectively, choose a position that you’re both comfortable with and that allows you both to insert the dildo at the same time. The best ways to do this are usually in missionary or doggy style (with one partner on all fours and the other positioned behind them), but it’s always up to your own interests, too.

Scissoring

There’s a reason this is often the first sex position for lesbians that people think of: it’s got a reputation to deliver.

To do it, one partner needs to lay on their back or side, legs spread. The other positions themselves sitting or lying the opposite way, also with legs spread. One partner slides their body into the other until both vulvas are engaging in contact.

From there, you use the grinding action to experiment and play around with stimulation, using the most sensation-filled motion to reach an orgasm.

And remember, you can always use our many sex toys to help you level up these positions in more ways than one!

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While some lucky women out there are able to get off without any extra help, using penetration purely as the source of inspiration, many of us choose to use air suction sex toys or click (clit) suckers for that extra ‘oomph. In fact, these nifty devices offer some of the easiest ways to ramp up the intensity of clitoral orgasms and still eat your cake, too, with mind-blowing penetrative sex with your partner.

Ultimately, the key to having a good sexual experience is in how you position yourself during intercourse and what type of stimulation you give yourself during or beforehand. The more intense the orgasm, the better it will feel, obviously. So, if you’re looking for a way to make sure you reach an even higher level of pleasure, here’s our guide on how to do just that using air suction sex toys and clit suckers.

How to use clit suckers during sex

Start by positioning your body so that you can easily access your clitoris. You want to be lying down flat on your back with your legs spread wide open. This allows easy access to all parts of your body. If you need further assistance, try putting pillows under your knees.

Next, place one end of the suction vibrator inside your vaginal canal. Slide it up until you find the right spot where you like it best. For most people, this means around two inches into their vaginas. It should stay comfortably lodged there throughout intercourse, without any discomfort.

Note: Some women prefer to put them at the entrance of their vaginas instead, so make sure you experiment with what feels good.

From there, all you have to do is adjust the sensitivity and intensity as you go, enjoying the waves of pleasure that are bound to hit you.

Note: Toys that vibrate should be used with caution; if it feels uncomfortable or you feel agitation, always make sure you revise how you’re using the device or consider an alternative.

Why invest in one of these bad boys?

There are so many reasons why these sex toys are some of our bestselling products:

•  Clit suckers are great for solo play or couples who want to experiment with new positions, so no one is ever left out.
• They’re perfect for those who want to try something different without having to worry about penetration.
• You can use them during foreplay, during sex or after intercourse.
• Suction toys like these are great for use in the bathtub or shower.
• They make for a beginner’s best friend.
• They’re easy to clean.
• They’re even better when you use lube or partner them with other accessories like lingerie.
• For those that like to replicate oral sex, they’re the ultimate winner.
• You can maintain complete control over the intensity of your orgasms.

Sound like the real deal?

That’s because it is. If you’ve dreamed of jaw-dropping, eye-rolling orgasms, they all start with these absolute DREAMS. We recommend options like the INYA Sonnet Rechargeable Suction Vibe or Satisfyer Pro Penguin Rechargeable for pleasure you’ll never forget. Seriously, ladies –  take our word for it. Womanizer – Satisfyer pro2 with vibration

For more information or for product advice, get in touch with our customer service team for more information.

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