All of us at Femplay share the same belief that we are here to enhance relationships. Every time we ship a package we know we are either injecting some fun in the relationship, re-igniting the passion and love through our sensual toys and lingerie or a customer is going to the effort to explore different ways to pleasure their partner. It is a satisfying job, no pun intended.

So when we received this message from a customer, we were so grateful to hear her story, we asked for permission to publish it in order to share it with all our customers who may experience the same situation. Grace, we are extremely happy to hear from you and we are so pleased for you.

Here is her story…

Femplay, I want to thank you for saving my marriage and my mental health. Obviously you are wondering how you could have done this. Well this is why I felt the need to share my story with you and your customers.

My husband and I have been married for 28 happy years, we have raised 3 wonderfulchildren who have all left the nest with their careers and continuation of their education.

Even though you are aware they will all leave when they are older, it actually still comes as a surprise and it found me in a position that I was not expecting, to be home alone with my husband all the time.

Whilst we have had many happy years of marriage we have always had our buffers, the children. But now the house is empty and it is just us, no buffers.

At first we were in a kind of haze, still doing our daily activities but with a little less noise and people. Then we got stuck in a routine of coming home from work eating dinner then just sitting on the lounge watching a movie or documentary then going to bed.

It was at about 6 months when I realised that we had not had sex for awhile. I then thought about it and sadly realised we had only had sex 3 times since the children had moved out. I couldn’t believe it, what was wrong with us, what was wrong with me?

We had always had a very satisfying sex life and then suddenly out of nowhere it basically stopped. Our home was empty, we should be making love anywhere we want and not having to worry about anyone hearing us or walking in on us. Then why weren’t we? I really didn’t know what to do.

I didn’t want to bring the subject up with my husband because in a way I was scared. What if he told me he didn’t want me anymore? I had so many scenarios going through my head I was going a little crazy. So I decided I had to do something about it and now.

After looking at a couple of websites I came upon your site and straight away I felt comfortable. It was so easy to use and found things that I didn’t know that I was actually looking for.

I read a couple of your blogs about relationships and pleasure and I decided to plan a weekend away together, even though the house was empty I wanted to bring the romance back so that we can continue it at home.

So I booked a nice hotel and then I went on your website to buy some lingerie and adult toys that we could play with on our trip. We have a couple of toys that we have used over the years, so it wasn’t anything new to us but I thought our life was changing and I wanted it to be more exciting. So why not get something to help us along.

I didn’t know there are now toys especially designed with couples in mind. I purchased one of the couple’s toys called the We Vibe 4 and a few others toys as well as some lingerie.

When I received the parcel I couldn’t wait to open it. Whilst my husband wasn’t home I tried on the lingerie to make sure I looked good in them and the sizing was perfect. Next I charged up all the toys and put batteries in the ones which required them. I then packed it all away in my overnight bag waiting with anticipation to our weekend away.

Our first night away was fantastic. My husband had so much love in his eyes when I walked out of the bedroom in my sexy new gown. I knew that we had just gone through an adjustment phase with the kids leaving. It wasn’t us and it wasn’t me.

When I took the toys out, the love in his eyes turned into lust and then he just had me just where he wanted me. All the crazy scenarios I had running through my mind had all disappeared. We were still in love and I knew that things were only going to get better.

The couple’s toy was something that I was not expecting. It provided us with so much pleasure and gave us the feeling of the closeness that we both had obviously been missing these last few months. Everything just came back to us.

The rest of the weekend was romantic. Beautiful walks along the beach, long swims in the pool and after lunch we would go back to our room and make love. We felt connected again.

If it wasn’t for your website and reading your relationship blogs I don’t know where we would be right now.

Thank you.

Yours sincerely,

Grace
A very happy wife.