Playing with yourselfWhatever you want to call it, it has been around a long time and has been depicted in art since prehistoric times including rock paintings of male masturbation and a clay figurine from the 4th millennium BC from a temple site of Malta depicts a woman masturbating. However male depictions are far more common.
Not all women can achieve the climax they desire from intercourse alone and may require a little more help to get there. This is where adding sex toys into your sex life can help you achieve that incredible O.
You may be using them solo at the moment and want to introduce the fun into the bedroom with your partner or you both could be new to using sex toys and you are not sure how to approach the subject.
This can be a very sensitive topic for some people with their partner’s. So many things go through your mind when you know you want to approach this subject.
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The word Dildo is believed to have come from the Latin word Odilatere which means to open wide or the Italian word Diletto which means to delight.
The history of the Dildo starts in the Palaeolithic era. Archaeologists have found items from this era in caves and they believed that they where fertility objects. But with the shape being of a phallus other people believed they were for another use… Some of the first items found where made from polished stone with rounded heads and measuring around 20cm in length and as such where believed that they had been used as a sexual aid.
The Bullet Vibrator is one of the most unassuming sex toys available as they are not in the usual phallic shape or style but are designed for ease of use (mainly with one hand) and control as they are a precision sex toy.
Today we are spoilt for choice, with so many different Bullets available you can have a different bullet for any occasion. The majority of the bullets are so small and discreet you can take them anywhere like the Sexy Secrets Compact with Bullet, it just looks like any other small cosmetic case.
From the very small bullet (around 5-8 cm) that can easily fit into your pocket, purse or handbag, (they are usually waterproof which lets you have fun in the shower or bath) to the rechargeable bullets where you never have to run around to find batteries it is always at the ready.
The Rabbit is a vibrating and usually rotating sex toy. The long shaft has rotating pearls or beads and has a clitoral stimulator attached to it that looks like bunny ears. They are designed to give more intense pleasure than using a traditional dildo, vibrator or clitoral stimulator alone as they stimulate both the vagina and clitoris at the same time.
Originally made in Japan, even though the law stated that they were not allowed to make vibrators, the manufacturers made them to resemble animals with bright colours. These vibrators were released in the US by Vibratex in 1983 with shapes like the Kangaroo and the Turtle. Then, in 1984, after working on the design and introducing rotating pearls in the shaft they decided on rabbit ears for the clitoral stimulator (the rabbit is a lucky charm in Japan) and the Rabbit was born.