What is Temperature Play?

Temperature play is using hot and cold items to tantalise and seduce your lover, it can be considered to be a slight form of bondage depending on how you play. It is introducing cold, warm or hot items to your sexual repertoire.

For the chill factor, you can start simple with the easiest item of all and that’s ice. Running a cube of ice along your lover’s body will provide them with not only goose bumps but will tantalise them with a seductive sensation.

Even something as simple as a cup of tea can be very intriguing, take a mouth full of your tea and go down on your man and he will enjoy the warm sensation you are providing whilst also stimulating his penis with your mouth.

Your next level could be candle wax, you can use your normal household candles and drip that hot wax onto your lover but do be careful as obviously it is hot wax you don’t want to put something that will burn on your most treasured parts of your body.

You can now also find special wax candles available which are now readily available and specifically for temperature play. You can also add massage candles to the mix, you light the candle and after the oil starts pooling you slowly drip the oil onto your lover’s body and then you massage them with the oil. It is like having a 3-in-one, the aromas from the scent of the candle, the sexy hot oil being dripped onto the body and the massage. Maybe it is 4-in-one, as you know there will be some action afterwards.

There are also a fair amount of adult toys available for temperature play, but one brand stands out in quality, design and style. The incredible popular and stylish Icicles range of dildos. This range of dildos are truly designer art for sex toys. The Icicles dildos are hand-made from Borosilicate glass, are non-porous, very hygienic and easy to keep clean and to mention again, they   look stunning. Best of all, they are temperature play heaven.

You can pop the Icicles dildo’s in the fridge or freezer to cool them down, you can run them under hot water to heat them up, and you are able to put them in the microwave as well but you really have to be extremely careful as we all know how fast microwaves can make something incredible hot. My suggestion is to keep to the hot water, even if it is hot water boiling on the stove that you pop your icicle into for a minute and pull out. Testing it of course before using.

Whether it is hot or cold you will have the stimulation of the heat or chill running on and inside your body. You can trace your lover’s body with the cold or warm dildo and slowly reach to the gardens of heaven and slide it inside them. The different sensations that you will find from the heat and chill will be breathtaking.

The next level is the vibe that is actually a block of ice but with a slight difference as it has a bullet vibe in the base, Touché Vibrating Ice Massager. You fill the holder with water and place it in the freezer, when you are ready you take it out and attach it to the holder with the bullet and off you go.

For something a little more different is the Ceramix No.1 Butt Plug. You can use either hot or cold water inside and it’s for anal fun. Please remember to still use lubricant with anal play.

You don’t have to stop there as steel toys are just as good as glass in keeping the heat or the chill in them and there is a whole stylish range of steel toys to play with as well. I believe the steel dildos are ideal for giving that chill as they have the coolness from the start. Brrrrr!!

Top any kind of temperature play of with some sensory deprivation by placing a blindfold on your lover. They will not know where the heat or chill is going to touch them first or where. This is truly a hidden sensory delight and it is possible to climax just by the anticipation only.

You can mix it up at any time that you feel comfortable and you are both ready to explore a little more you can also look at adding, chocolate, ben wa balls, whipped cream, chilled fruit like strawberries, oh how sweet. Then you can let your imagination go wild.

If you choose to go further with the bondage side of temperature play you can include bondage restraints and drive each other wild.

Temperature play is extremely exhilarating and exciting for both partners. You can always start simple and work your way up and experience more enjoyable and stimulating ways of introducing temperature play into your bedroom.