Women love to dress up in every aspect. We dress up just to go to work or go to the shops. We are strange creatures who always want to look good. Not just for ourselves but for everyone else. We want to be noticed by both men and women and we want it to be a positive experience

A simple matching silk, satin and lace bra and panty set can turn our day into something more positive than wearing granny panties and an ill fitting cheap department store bra, we feel sexy and confident.

So why wouldn’t we want to dress up in the bedroom as well. Lingerie beautiful, sexy lingerie. Is there anything better to have against your skin other than your lover?! Corsets, baby dolls, bodysuits, long and short satin gowns. All of which can have us feeling so beautiful that we want to show it off to our lover. And we love the look you give us when we walk out in our lingerie. That simple look can run shivers all over our body.

Now take it a step further into role playing. We can be the naughty school girl, sexy secretary, the dirty little maid or the bondage mistress. Depending on the outfit we are either the Sub or the Dom, and both of which brings a lot of fun in the bedroom to you both.

We also don’t mind if you want to dress up for us sometimes as well. Whilst you don’t have as much available to you as we do there are still some things that you can do. A sexy pair of boxers, a bow tie on your penis or even a satin men’s robe can do it for us.

I mentioned earlier that as women we want other women to notice us whilst we are out. This can also come to play in a sexual nature as well. Women’s bodies are beautiful, we are made with softness and curves and it is just so sexy. This is why a lot of women fantasize about having sex with another woman. It doesn’t mean they are lesbian or bi-sexual it is about being sexual and sensual. Wanting to have the feeling of a woman’s touch is very sexy and a little naughty.

We may have a bit of girl on girl exploration during college or we might want to incorporate it into a three-some with our lover. But if you go for the later, make sure you talk about what you really want to happen and if there are any rules. If there are any no go areas, especially if this is the first experience as you don’t want it to be ruined.

She may just want you to watch and if you are not happy with this then you have to tell her. But if a man is honest and if it came down to watching only or nothing at all I think you would love to watch. As it may only be a one of sexual fantasy that you tick off your bucket list, you will want to do it the way you have fantasised about.

For men watching their lover being intimate with a woman would be such an amazing hot and sexy experience. And later when you’re alone, you will have the most amazing sex together.

Also a lot of women do have these feelings but they never will put it into practice. This could be for many reasons, but it is essentially up to them. They may just love watching some girl porn, looking at pictures or talking dirty about the things they would love to do and have done to them. This can be enough for them to have the most incredible orgasm whilst only having sex with you, or actually even without you as they fantasise about women when they are alone and masturbating.

So guys, buy some lingerie, toys and even a DVD for your lover you never know what may happen. You may be very pleasantly surprised.