{"id":1007,"date":"2015-12-02T09:43:31","date_gmt":"2015-12-01T23:43:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=1007"},"modified":"2015-12-02T09:43:31","modified_gmt":"2015-12-01T23:43:31","slug":"lube-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/lube-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Lube and Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wet-stuff.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" alt=\"wet stuff\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/wet-stuff-300x179.jpg\" width=\"249\" height=\"148\" \/><\/a>Recently MMA champion <a href=\"http:\/\/www.maxim.com\/entertainment\/sports\/article\/ufc-queen-ronda-rousey-reveals-secret-great-sex-2015-11\">Ronda Rousey<\/a> stated that you don\u2019t need lube in the bedroom if you\u2019re doing things right. Whist we admire Ronda, and wouldn\u2019t want to get on her bad side, we believe that what she stated may have been taken out of context, if not it\u2019s just simply incorrect.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>We have to start with the basic information and that every woman is different and this includes vaginal lubrication.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/lipolysis2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" alt=\"lipolysis2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/lipolysis2-200x300.jpg\" width=\"163\" height=\"245\" \/><\/a>Vagina lubrication changes over the course of their cycle, and over the course of a lifetime. These factors have nothing to do with the quality of your sexual activities. No amount of foreplay or stimulation is going to get you wet and ready if certain physical factors aren&#8217;t at play.<\/p>\n<p>Penis size can also play a factor as well, if the size of the penis is considerable it would be more comfortable with a little extra lubricant. No woman wants to feel the burn of skin rubbing and may even feel like it is ripping you, which isn\u2019t pleasant.<\/p>\n<p>Unplanned and spur of the moment sex can require a little help, as you are not exactly ready all the time. If you like to have outdoor sex<a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/ampule.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-1010\" alt=\"ampule\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/ampule-200x300.jpg\" width=\"135\" height=\"203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/ampule-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/ampule.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 135px) 100vw, 135px\" \/><\/a> with the excitement of getting caught, or if you are feeling frisky after date night and can\u2019t wait until you get home. Luckily, there are many lubricants that are available in satchels, ampules, dissolvable capsules and purse size bottles.<\/p>\n<p>The texture of lube can be a turn on when you find the right one. It is recommended to try different styles of lubricants, even if you have found one that you love the next one could be the one you can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many different varieties of lubes available:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Water Based<\/li>\n<li>Silicone<\/li>\n<li>Organic<\/li>\n<li>Natural<\/li>\n<li>Stimulant<\/li>\n<li>Flavoured<\/li>\n<li>Warming<\/li>\n<li>Cooling<\/li>\n<li>Anal<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>With so many lubes available it can be very hard to select the right lube for you. We have another blog to assist in your decisions, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/guide-sex-toys-choosing-right-lube\/\">choosing the right lube<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>There can be other factors of why you may need to use lubricants, if you are getting intimate for the first time you may have a little anxiety and not produce enough of your own lubrication or simply you prefer a little extra.<\/p>\n<p>Lubes can also add to the fun, different flavours that honestly do taste a lot better than what most people think. I remember trying the new <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/wet-stuff-flavoured-lubricant.html\">Wet Stuff Salted Caramel<\/a> on my hand as a tester and I couldn\u2019t stop licking it and I wanted more.<\/p>\n<p>Stimulating, warming and cooling lubes provide a different sexual sensation for the both of you, they can even increase your desire to have sex and increase your climax. For me this is a good enough reason to give them a go.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/anal-lube.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-1009\" alt=\"anal lube\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/anal-lube.jpg\" width=\"201\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/anal-lube.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/anal-lube-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><\/a>Have you ever tried to have anal sex without lube?! No thank you!! The bum doesn\u2019t have any natural lubricant so you need to use lube otherwise you are going to have one sore bum and if you are not using toys, one sore penis. This is why there is specially formulated <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/anal-lube-relaxants.htm\">lubricants for anal sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Practicing safe sex you need to be using a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/condoms.htm\">condom<\/a> and it is highly recommended to use lubricant with condoms to prevent them tearing. This states something in itself as condoms do have some form of lubrication on the already but still state that it is best to use a little lube as well.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, it comes down to your personal preference. If you feel like you are naturally well lubricated every time you are ready to rock n\u2019 roll and don\u2019t see the need for lube, go for it. Nevertheless, I do recommend that if you haven\u2019t tried it you might want to give it a go. You might find that special lube that may provide you with that little extra pleasure.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently MMA champion Ronda Rousey stated that you don\u2019t need lube in the bedroom if you\u2019re doing things right. Whist we admire Ronda, and wouldn\u2019t want to get on her bad side, we believe that what she stated may have been taken out of context, if not it\u2019s just simply incorrect.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1,5,4],"tags":[320,321,328,7,327,9,300,323,318,324,85,111,319,326,322,325],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1007"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1007"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1007\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1012,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1007\/revisions\/1012"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}