{"id":192,"date":"2014-06-13T16:09:43","date_gmt":"2014-06-13T06:09:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=192"},"modified":"2015-07-07T09:27:17","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T23:27:17","slug":"art-seduction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/art-seduction\/","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Seduction"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Firstly you need confidence and a little playfulness.\u00a0 You don\u2019t want to come across as needy as the more desperate you are the less attractive you will become.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-193\" alt=\"Sexy Seduction Tips\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Seduction.jpg\" width=\"250\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Seduction.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Seduction-223x300.jpg 223w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/>You may like to keep them guessing be being a little risqu\u00e9 or doing something unexpected.\u00a0 Keep a little mystery with your seduction techniques.<\/p>\n<p>Be playful with flirting, a slight touch or a little teasing with a seductive smile.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be too serious as it is almost like a game.\u00a0 Studies have found that a playful attitude makes people more attractive.<\/p>\n<p>People are more likely to give their phone number to someone who uses humour to woo them.\u00a0 Being able to make fun of yourself can also show that you can take a joke even if it\u2019s about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Body language plays a large part in seduction.\u00a0 Move confidently, if you look like you\u2019re sure of yourself other people will notice.\u00a0 But don\u2019t be too cocky as this can really turn people off.\u00a0 Using your body also comes into effect with the flirting process with touching someone.\u00a0 This is also a great way if you are not an expert in word play.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Eyes and mouths play a huge part in seduction, as that is generally where the person you are flirting with will be looking at.\u00a0 Lock your eyes on the special someone.\u00a0 When you\u2019re talking to them, don\u2019t let your eyes wander around looking at everyone else.\u00a0 Pay special attention to the one you are with.\u00a0 People feel special when they have someone who is showing them undivided attention.<\/p>\n<p>You will seem more attractive if the other person believes you have a full exciting life.\u00a0 Don\u2019t always be available, you have to be interesting and exciting.\u00a0 No one wants to be with someone who they believe to be boring.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to making the call for the first date, don\u2019t call straightaway call in a couple of days.\u00a0 Or if you are the one being asked don\u2019t accept the first date they ask for.\u00a0 Keep the intrigue there.\u00a0 Again neither will be thinking the other is being desperate or dull.\u00a0 Play it cool.\u00a0 But of course keep your social calendar full and have fun and exciting things to do.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be waiting by the phone thinking of calling them or waiting on that call.\u00a0 You will feel more enjoyment out of your life if you\u2019re out and about.<\/p>\n<p>Always leave something for the imagination.\u00a0 Don\u2019t share everything about your life straight away.\u00a0 Keep the intrigue alive and this can make you and the other person mysterious.<\/p>\n<p>Be mindful of what parts of your life you want to share.\u00a0 Do you think that the other person wants to know about your Aunt that has 6 toes?!\u00a0 Keep it fun and light.\u00a0 Being slightly vague in the beginning lets you introduce more information at a later time.<\/p>\n<p>Waiting for their desire for you can be like waiting for the kettle to boil.\u00a0 Be patient and believe in your confidence that it\u2019s only a matter of time till you have completely seduced them.\u00a0 If you don\u2019t have that confidence you will not succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Human nature makes it natural for us to become attracted to someone we are comfortable with, makes us laugh and who leaves us with intrigue.<\/p>\n<p>The art of seduction is like making someone fall into your spell.<\/p>\n<p>Keep the magic going.<\/p>\n<p><em>By Jenifer Grant<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Firstly you need confidence and a little playfulness.\u00a0 You don\u2019t want to come across as needy as the more desperate you are the less attractive you will become. 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