{"id":312,"date":"2014-09-12T09:45:26","date_gmt":"2014-09-11T23:45:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=312"},"modified":"2021-11-19T14:38:20","modified_gmt":"2021-11-19T04:38:20","slug":"must-toys-accessories-kinky-couples","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/must-toys-accessories-kinky-couples\/","title":{"rendered":"Must-have toys and accessories for kinky couples"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Few things bring a couple together like sparking things back up in the bedroom and having consistently great sex, and sex is never quite as exciting as when it gets kinky. If you agree with me and are looking for some new gear to play with or are just starting out and don\u2019t know what the must-have toys and accessories for a kinky couple are, read on. There\u2019s a lot to discover and plenty of different things to explore, so follow your heart and get something that excites you.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<img title=\"Bondage Bear\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/bondage-bear.jpg\" alt=\"Bondage Bear\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Tie it Up with Bondage Gear<\/h2>\n<p>The variety in bondage gear is astounding, and if you\u2019re inexperienced with it, you might not know where to begin. Fortunately, the basics are simple. You\u2019re going to want some comfortable and easy to use restraints to get started. I recommend <a href=\"\/handcuffs.htm\">handcuffs<\/a> and ankle cuffs, because there\u2019s no trick at all to using them\u2014just slap them on and get busy!<\/p>\n<p>Beyond the basics lie a lot of really fun accessories. Those who want to completely immobilise their partners should look into getting a full under-the-bed restraint kit or another type of all-in-one bondage kit. <a href=\"\/nipple-clamps.htm\">Nipple clamps<\/a> are a great option, too, simply because of the intense feeling they produce! They walk that sensual line between pleasure and pain like no other sex toy.<\/p>\n<h2>Get Stronger with Kegel Exercisers<\/h2>\n<p>Kegel exercise isn\u2019t technically a couples\u2019 activity, but exercising your pelvic floor muscles makes sex so much better that it\u2019s worth looking at. While the basic Kegel exercise doesn\u2019t require any equipment, if you want to really work them out, you should look at <a href=\"\/kegel-exercisers.htm\">Kegel exercisers<\/a>; like Ben Wa balls and Luna beads. Keeping up with Kegel exercises is especially important to keep you sexually fit enough for those marathon kinky sex sessions.<\/p>\n<h2>Keep Things Moving with the Right Lube<\/h2>\n<p>Although you (or your girl) will be plenty wet while this is going on, if you\u2019re going to be doing any anal play or even just going at it for a long time, you\u2019ll need some lube. Otherwise, you might find yourself, shall we say, rubbed the wrong way. It wouldn\u2019t be a bad idea to read <a href=\"\/blog\/guide-sex-toys-choosing-right-lube\/\">our full guide on lube<\/a>;.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, lubes are made from either a base of water, silicone or oil. The one you want will depend on preference, what you\u2019re doing and which sex toys you\u2019re going to use. Silicone lasts longer than water based lubes but damages silicone toys. Water based lubes won\u2019t damage silicone toys but they don\u2019t last as long during sex and are completely useless if you\u2019re having sex in the shower, because they dissolve in water.<\/p>\n<h2>Feel a Buzz with Vibrators<\/h2>\n<p>Vibrators have come a long way since Nan\u2019s day, and they\u2019re no longer relegated to solo play. Besides your standard vibrating wand, there are <a href=\"\/couples-vibrators.htm\">couples vibrators<\/a>; that stimulate a penis just as much as a vagina, double-headed ones for simultaneous G-spot and clitoral or even vaginal and anal stimulation, vibrating cock rings and even remote-controlled vibes that your partner can use on you.<\/p>\n<p>Most kinky couples would be particularly interested in trying out the remote-controlled vibrators, especially while in bondage. You\u2019d be amazed at how hot it gets when one of you has the other bound and at their mercy with a vibrator. For example, you could keep him or her at the edge of orgasm for ages\u2026<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s impossible to tell exactly what you\u2019d like as a couple since kink is so varied, but these toys and accessories are almost universal. You\u2019d be hard pressed to find a sexually open individual who couldn\u2019t get off on most of the items on this list, and maybe you\u2019ve had some inspirations of your own while reading it. Now the big question is, why aren\u2019t you having sex right now?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Few things bring a couple together like sparking things back up in the bedroom and having consistently great sex, and sex is never quite as exciting as when it gets kinky. 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