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<\/p>\nFour Tips to Help HIM Find YOUR Clit<\/h2>\n
Tip #1 – Give Encouragement\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
Men are easily motivated, but also easily frustrated. If they can\u2019t find it right away, they are likely to give up and move on. So, throughout the process of helping him find your clitoris, be sure to offer all the encouragement that you can.<\/p>\n
This \u2018encouragement\u2019 can come in the form of moans, grinding your hips, biting your lip, making sexy eye contact and verbal expressions like \u2018right there\u2019, \u2018oh that feels sooooooo good\u2019, etc. Pay close attention to him to find out what types of motivation work best\u2014then, reciprocate!<\/p>\n
Tip #2 – Show him the Way\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
You<\/i> (hopefully) know exactly where your clitoris is. So, the easiest way to help him find it is to show him. Next time you\u2019re \u2018gettin\u2019 frisky\u2019 guide his hand down to where your clitoris is located and then press his finger with yours right on the spot. Then show him the pressure, movement and speed that you <\/i>like. Give him encouragement to continue; being direct is sometimes best.<\/p>\n
Tip #3 – Draw him a Virtual Map\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
Physically finding a clitoris isn\u2019t rocket science, but you do have to know a little about female anatomy. So, let him know that to find any clitoris\u2014you\u2019ll be doing our whole gender a favour\u2014you can simply trace the lips of the labia upwards. Where they join at the top, the apex, is where the all-powerful clitoris is located.<\/p>\n
Tip #4 – Do it Yourself\u2026at First\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
Men are extremely visual creatures, so don\u2019t be afraid to show him yourself. Next time that you\u2019re passionately kissing, gently push him away and say \u201cwatch\u201d. Then begin stimulating your own clitoris\u2014as sexily as possible! He\u2019ll get the idea and follow your moves\u2026 eventually.<\/p>\n
Climax!<\/h2>\n
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Sadly, the clitoris might as well be the sphinx to some men. It\u2019s like a mythical creature. They don\u2019t know where it came from and they only have a vague idea where it is or what it is for. Luckily, of course, men are teachable. If your male lover thinks your clitoris is a unicorn, … Continue reading Four Tips to help HIM find YOUR Clit<\/span>