{"id":401,"date":"2014-10-27T09:25:48","date_gmt":"2014-10-26T23:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=401"},"modified":"2014-10-27T09:25:48","modified_gmt":"2014-10-26T23:25:48","slug":"safety-tips-kinky-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/safety-tips-kinky-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Safety Tips for Kinky Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kinky sex is a big, big topic in this blog, and with good reason. Not only is it a LOT of fun, but it\u2019s technical and demands a level of safety consciousness and awareness about your sexual partner that simply isn\u2019t necessary in vanilla sex. Kink is an extremely broad term that could mean anything from simple bondage and flogging play all the way up to extreme edge play<\/a>. With all this risky and faux-risky behaviour going on, safety is first on most kinksters\u2019 minds. If you\u2019re just getting into it, here are a few solid safety tips for fun, kinky and safe sex!
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Consent, Consent, Consent!<\/h2>\n

I\u2019ve talked about this kind of stuff in a couple other articles, like this one<\/a>, so I\u2019ll be brief.\u00a0 Before engaging in some steamy kinky sex, you should discuss what you\u2019re into beforehand, especially if you two (three, four\u2026) want to try something you haven\u2019t done before. Figure out each other\u2019s limits as well as sharing your fantasies. Finally, establish and observe a safe word that, if either of you says it, stops the action immediately so that you can take a step back and prevent harm or any unpleasantness.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Over-Bind<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve got cuffs, ropes, and other bondage gear<\/a> in play, you want it to feel real and actually restrict movement. That\u2019s the entire point! However, there\u2019s a difference between restriction and constriction. <\/i>You don\u2019t want to make things so tight that you cut off your partner\u2019s blood flow. Make sure that he or she is comfortable between tying up and getting started! You should also take care not to tie someone up in an awkward position that might hurt their joints or cause other injuries.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Force It<\/h2>\n

Don\u2019t force it in any way whatsoever. If you\u2019re trying to push a dildo, cock, or anything else into your partner\u2019s anus, vagina, mouth, etc, and it\u2019s not sliding in comfortably, you\u2019re either doing it wrong or you don\u2019t have enough lubrication. If that happens, back off, make sure what you\u2019re trying to do is even physically possible, make sure you\u2019re going in at the right angle and depth, and finally, lube up!<\/p>\n

This also applies figuratively: if you\u2019re doing something that maybe you<\/i> are personally into, like, say, smacking your partner\u2019s face, and they\u2019re clearly not into it, STOP. Even if they don\u2019t use the safe word, odds are they\u2019re uncomfortable and just being polite\u2014and that\u2019s not<\/i> sexy. It goes the other way too: if you want something done to you<\/i> like being smacked in the face and your partner is uncomfortable with it, then don\u2019t push the issue.<\/p>\n

Kink doesn\u2019t seem all that complicated now, does it? That\u2019s because at its core, it isn\u2019t. Kink is all about fantasy fulfilment. However, you got to keep it safe, responsible and enjoyable. It\u2019s actually quite easy to get into, and if you\u2019re looking for something to spice up your sex life, I can\u2019t suggest anything better than kink!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kinky sex is a big, big topic in this blog, and with good reason. Not only is it a LOT of fun, but it\u2019s technical and demands a level of safety consciousness and awareness about your sexual partner that simply isn\u2019t necessary in vanilla sex. Kink is an extremely broad term that could mean anything … Continue reading Safety Tips for Kinky Sex<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/401"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=401"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/401\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":403,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/401\/revisions\/403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}