{"id":425,"date":"2014-11-11T09:23:16","date_gmt":"2014-11-10T23:23:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=425"},"modified":"2014-11-11T09:23:16","modified_gmt":"2014-11-10T23:23:16","slug":"light-bondage-101-light-bondage-fun-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/light-bondage-101-light-bondage-fun-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Light Bondage 101\u2014How to Have Light Bondage Fun with your Partner"},"content":{"rendered":"

Thanks to 50 Shades of Grey, bondage has gone mainstream. It\u2019s now a suburban mums\u2019 favourite weekend after-the-kids-have-gone-to-bed activity. But, despite the overnight popularity of this long-shunned sexual \u2018perversion\u2019, many of us have been shy about giving it a try.<\/p>\n

Despite popular culture\u2019s belief that bondage is some sort of gateway into the world of deviant sex, you can incorporate light bondage into your love life\u2026without becoming a round-the-clock bondage nut.
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\nYou need only a few things to get started with light couple\u2019s bondage:<\/p>\n

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  1. Physical restraints, which you can find around the house\u2014anything from furry handcuffs to a silky tie to pantyhose<\/li>\n
  2. Creativity and inventiveness<\/li>\n
  3. To establish who will be the dominant and who will be the submissive\u2026 at least for the night<\/li>\n
  4. Trust: these games only work if you trust your partner<\/li>\n
  5. A safe word<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    If you have all of the above, then you\u2019re ready to get started.<\/p>\n

    Light Bondage Games for Beginners<\/h2>\n

    If this is your first foray into bondage, then begin with some simple games that won\u2019t put you too far out of your comfort zone\u2014or scare your partner. For complete newbs, I would recommend starting out with the following beginner bondage games. Once familiar with these, move on to intermediate games that incorporate more power\u2014and more toys!<\/p>\n

    Beginner Bondage Game One: Handcuffs<\/h2>\n

    While most of us have used handcuffs<\/a> or other restraints in our lovemaking at some point, they are still a great way to kick things off. Handcuffs\/restraints are generally the least threatening of all the bondage gear, making them a great jumping off point where almost everyone feels comfortable. Well\u2026 as comfortable as you can feel while in handcuffs, anyway.<\/p>\n

    The point of handcuffs and restraints is to remove a persons\u2019 ability to move, putting their partner in charge. This helps build trust and leaves room for plenty of unexpected pleasure.<\/p>\n

    Bondage for Beginners Game Two: Vibrator<\/h2>\n

    While you\u2019re all tied up, add some stimulation into the mix with a vibrator or sleeve. This will truly define who is boss, since the person receiving the stimulation loses power completely\u2014even over their own orgasm. Do this correctly and you\u2019ll have them eating out of the palm of your hand. If you don\u2019t have one yet (really?!?), you can find plenty of great vibrators<\/a> here.<\/p>\n

    Beginner Bondage Game Three: Blindfolds<\/h2>\n

    Blindfolds are another \u2018yeah, we\u2019ve done that already\u2019 piece of bondage gear\u2014but they play an extremely important role. Blindfolds are about removing one of your partner\u2019s senses. The drama of sensory depravation gives total control, builds trust and increases the intimacy and strength of stimulation and orgasms.<\/p>\n

    Final Beginner Bondage Game Four: Spanking<\/h2>\n

    Spanking, unlike the other things on this list, isn\u2019t about building trust\u2014it\u2019s about punishment, control and physicality. Spanking is likely a game that will pervade your bondage play (should you choose to keep going in this \u2018sport\u2019) well into the future.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Thanks to 50 Shades of Grey, bondage has gone mainstream. It\u2019s now a suburban mums\u2019 favourite weekend after-the-kids-have-gone-to-bed activity. But, despite the overnight popularity of this long-shunned sexual \u2018perversion\u2019, many of us have been shy about giving it a try. Despite popular culture\u2019s belief that bondage is some sort of gateway into the world of … Continue reading Light Bondage 101\u2014How to Have Light Bondage Fun with your Partner<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/425"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=425"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/425\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":428,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/425\/revisions\/428"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=425"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=425"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=425"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}