{"id":492,"date":"2015-01-28T15:51:00","date_gmt":"2015-01-28T05:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=492"},"modified":"2015-07-06T16:35:33","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T06:35:33","slug":"lets-talk-fantasies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/lets-talk-fantasies\/","title":{"rendered":"Let\u2019s Talk about Fantasies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all have them, some have the romantic walk along the beach with a candle light dinner and others have the rip their clothes off and have their way with you kind.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>It might be what you think about when your alone sex toy in hand and you\u2019re in the mood. With a good fantasy playing out in your mind you can go from an ok orgasm to climaxing with shivers running through your body.<\/p>\n<p>The ones we seldom talk about are the later kind which is disappointingly, as these are the most interesting, sexy and horny ones that we want to hear about. But unfortunately, not a lot of us like to share our most intimate of thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>This can be for many reasons mainly you don\u2019t want to be judged especially if they are really kinky. Some, you may want to come to life but others you may just like to keep them as a fantasy.<\/p>\n<p>Heterosexual male fantasies usually revolve around a number of women pleasing them or even just a whole lot of women pleasing each other whilst they watch and eventually get to participate with. And there are a large group of men that also love the idea of having their wife\/girlfriend having sex with another guy or two or even more.<\/p>\n<p>Whilst females may have the same fantasies as their men they may be a little more involved with exact details and how they want it to be played out. Usually when we think and dream of things it is normally because we want them done to us or do them to someone else. We are allowed to be selfish in fantasy land, that\u2019s what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n<p>So when a woman is thinking of a threesome she isn\u2019t necessarily thinking that any man is going to be involved with the other woman. She may want to keep all that pleasure to herself, much to the dismay of her man. But at least he gets to watch which is pretty sexy although it can also be very frustrating.<\/p>\n<p>But women tend to fantasise more than most men think. Especially with the new age of sex novels and toys like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/catalogsearch\/result\/?q=fifty+shades+of+grey\">&#8216;Fifty Shades of Grey&#8217;<\/a> series we have started to change it up a little. Previously it may have been just wanting a smack on the bum and being told that you\u2019re a naughty girl, now it\u2019s getting the paddle or whip out and asking to be called a naughty slut.<\/p>\n<p>Some more popular fantasy include being filmed whilst having sex, like acting out a porn scene or being a bit of an exhibitionist and having people watch you. Of course you can\u2019t go past the submissive and dominant sex acts. Either way can be such an extreme fantasy. Letting your partner do anything they want to you, tie you up and ram their hardness deep inside of you. Or better still, the whole focus is on you and what you want. He is there to please you and do whatever you say. He is your slave.<\/p>\n<p>Whilst you may wish for your fantasies to stay just that fantasies, others desire for them to be fulfilled and the only way that is going to happen is if you speak about them. Tell your partner what they are and find out if they are willing to participate. They may surprise you and want the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>But like all things in the sexual world it is up to you who you tell about any of your sexual acts or thoughts to. But the best thing about fantasy land is you can be as naughty as you want to be. You don\u2019t have any rules or regulations, you can be completely free. And it can be surprising sometimes on how dirty our sexual minds can get. I know mine is!<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy your freedom and fantasies either alone, with your special someone or a whole heap of someone\u2019s and enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n<p><em>by Jenifer Grant<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have them, some have the romantic walk along the beach with a candle light dinner and others have the rip their clothes off and have their way with you kind.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6,4],"tags":[16,75,74,8],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/492"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=492"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/492\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":744,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/492\/revisions\/744"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=492"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=492"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=492"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}