{"id":659,"date":"2015-05-06T10:35:58","date_gmt":"2015-05-06T00:35:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=659"},"modified":"2015-07-07T09:52:50","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T23:52:50","slug":"man-loves-porn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/man-loves-porn\/","title":{"rendered":"When your man loves porn"},"content":{"rendered":"

If a guy watches a lot of porn does he have different ideas and ideals of what he wants from a woman in bed? \"porn\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Being with Femplay<\/span><\/a><\/span>, I am surrounded with images, toys, DVD\u2019s, and anything else you could imagine.\u00a0 My partner loves the products I brings home, he loves them so much that he sends me a text or an email with his \u201corder\u201d for the night.<\/p>\n

He also loves pornography<\/span><\/a><\/span>. He loves it so much that he has quite the collection. I also know that he looks or watches porn in some form every day. Be it a DVD<\/span><\/a><\/span>, pictures or something on the internet. There is so much available now with the World Wide Web that it is only a couple of key taps away.<\/p>\n

Do I believe that it impacts our sexual relationship?<\/p>\n

Yes, definitely it does, both in positive and negative ways. Let\u2019s talk about the positive first as \"intimate<\/a>that is far more exciting. He has learnt different techniques from porn both for himself and for me which has been very exciting. He is more adventurous and open to my suggestions than if he didn\u2019t watch it. And he has opened my sexual attitudes up as well, which is a pretty big statement as I am very open with my sexuality.<\/p>\n

We watch porn together and he knows what kind of things get my juices flowing and will make sure he picks the right ones for the right night. He knows exactly what to look for in his collection because he has spent so much time with it. So there is no wasting time finding the right scene for my desires on any night. I can just tell him and he will pop it on. People collect a lot of different things, he collects porn.<\/p>\n

The negative impacts are only minor and may sound a little funny, so please laugh at my expense. My first one is, in porn the guy will hold the girls head whilst she is pleasing him with a BJ, and then moving her head back and forth with a little more enthusiasm, he likes to do this.<\/p>\n

I try and take it as deep as I can and I do practice in taking more and more when I\u2019m in the mood, also using comfortably numb<\/span><\/a> <\/span>to help, but ramming my head back and forth is not going to help his cause. I am not a porn star I can chock on it, dry reach or worst I could throw up. (I haven\u2019t yet, but honestly came close once).<\/p>\n

My second is thinking that I love to be groped all the time. All day every day no matter where we are or what we are doing. Whilst I am making dinner, no I don\u2019t want you to shove your \"warm-me-up-first\"<\/a>fingers inside of me without any warm up. The girl in the movie may love it because she has been warmed up before the camera started rolling. Yes, I understand and appreciate that I have a loving and affectionate man, but I need a little warming up please.<\/p>\n

As I said they are only minor. He doesn\u2019t have out there expectations on what I should be able to do sexually because certain porn stars can do it with so many guys why can\u2019t I do it with just one, him. He knows that they are professionals and they have practice and that is what they want to do.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t believe professional quality pornography degrades women and nor does he.\u00a0 We understand that there is some lower level porn that is not so respectful but they are not in his collection.<\/p>\n

We shouldn\u2019t be afraid of pornography, we should enjoy it for what it is. Professional adults who want to perform for you and want you to enjoy the show.<\/p>\n

So tonight when I get home with his shopping list he sent earlier, we are going to enjoy a good show and each other.<\/p>\n

Have fun!<\/p>\n

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