{"id":698,"date":"2015-05-25T14:24:21","date_gmt":"2015-05-25T04:24:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=698"},"modified":"2015-07-07T09:50:33","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T23:50:33","slug":"woman-hard-understand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/woman-hard-understand\/","title":{"rendered":"Are woman hard to understand?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I will have to agree that women can be a little hard to work out sometimes. And it is no <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/male-and-female-sign.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" alt=\"male and female sign\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/male-and-female-sign-300x245.jpg\" width=\"180\" height=\"147\" \/><\/a>wonder men do have issues with knowing and understanding us. This is in our normal daily activities as well as our sex lives. Why? Who really knows but it can be fun to try and work it out.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Men may think that all we want is for a tall dark and handsome stranger to carry us off to the sunset, and then make wild passionate love to us. Once upon a time this was our \u201cgo to\u201d fantasy and whilst yes, this would be nice once or twice but really we want a little more than that.<\/p>\n<p>Today\u2019s women have evolved into hidden minxes. We have perverted fantasies that we want to play out and in most cases our men have absolutely no idea. Ladies, these are why they don\u2019t understand us, or know what we want. We simply are not telling them.<\/p>\n<p>Is it because we are afraid to tell them? Are we scared of being judged? Are they fantasies that play out well in our minds but we are not sure they are going to play out in real life just as well?<\/p>\n<p>In my experience it has always worked out by talking to my partner and telling him exactly<a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/blindfolded.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-699 alignright\" alt=\"blindfolded\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/blindfolded-300x172.jpg\" width=\"266\" height=\"161\" \/><\/a> what I want. But I still held out on some of my fantasies to keep just for myself. But was this holding out on my pleasure?<\/p>\n<p>Men, you will be surprised what some of our fantasies are and I am going to give you just a couple of things to think about to what a lot of women want or are thinking.<\/p>\n<p>We have all heard the saying treat them mean keep them keen, but unfortunately this has always been a negative stereotype. The way women think of it is in a different form.<\/p>\n<p>We love receiving attention from men, of course appropriate attention. No cat calls when we are walking down the street or yelling \u201cshow us your tits\u201d as you drive past us.<\/p>\n<p>Some men believe and what to be in control of a relationship but I have to let you know that women do love being in control just as much if not more than you do. We want you to worship our bodies and beg for our attention. Not in a humiliating way, in a lustful \u201cI can\u2019t get enough of you\u201d way.<\/p>\n<p>We want to feel your total devotion. We want to be in control of what we let you do to us and where and how. We want to be in control. And with this we want you to lose some of your control and have a little bit of a feminie side to you as well. Let us run a <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/catalogsearch\/result\/?q=feathers\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">feather<\/span><\/a> <\/span>down your body or put <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/handcuffs.htm\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">fluffy handcuffs<\/span><\/a><\/span> on you whilst we please you. This lets us know that you are ours.<\/p>\n<p>Then turn this completely around and we want to feel every inch of your testosterone running through your body. We want you to grab us and throw us on your bed and have your way with us. We want you to ravish our beautiful bodies like we are the only women in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, we want it all and we don\u2019t see why we shouldn\u2019t have it all. And if we are in loving<a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/ladies-and-gentlemen.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-704 alignright\" alt=\"ladies and gentlemen\" src=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/ladies-and-gentlemen-300x187.jpg\" width=\"224\" height=\"140\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/ladies-and-gentlemen-300x187.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/ladies-and-gentlemen-1024x640.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/ladies-and-gentlemen-624x390.jpg 624w, https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/ladies-and-gentlemen.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 224px) 100vw, 224px\" \/><\/a> relationship, chauvinisms and women\u2019s liberation shouldn\u2019t play a part in it. But being a gentleman and a lady can go a long way in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Men, open the door for your lady and pay her a loving complement. Show her in little ways that you love her.<\/p>\n<p>Ladies, iron his work shirt, give him a kiss on the check as you walk past him.<\/p>\n<p>And then later you both can have a little fun with different role reversals and enjoy yourselves. Open yourself to each other and enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I will have to agree that women can be a little hard to work out sometimes. And it is no wonder men do have issues with knowing and understanding us. This is in our normal daily activities as well as our sex lives. Why? Who really knows but it can be fun to try and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/woman-hard-understand\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Are woman hard to understand?<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[8,21,19,20],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=698"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":705,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions\/705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}