{"id":881,"date":"2015-09-29T09:09:34","date_gmt":"2015-09-28T23:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/?p=881"},"modified":"2015-09-29T09:09:34","modified_gmt":"2015-09-28T23:09:34","slug":"keeping-relationship-alive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.femplay.com.au\/blog\/keeping-relationship-alive\/","title":{"rendered":"Keeping Your Relationship Alive"},"content":{"rendered":"

Every couple has a different opinion on what a healthy and romantic \"cuddles\"<\/a>relationship is all about.<\/p>\n

Relationships take time and I don\u2019t want to say the word work<\/i> as that is something no one likes, so I will say effort. Time and effort is something that should not stop if you want your relationship to keep thriving. And it\u2019s not 50\/50; a relationship is 100\/100. You can\u2019t put only \u00bd of yourself in, you need to put your whole self in to get the most out of it.<\/p>\n

Trust is one of the most important aspects to a relationship. If we don\u2019t feel like we can trust our partner so many other areas of the relationship can also be harmed by this.<\/p>\n

Human beings have issues with trust. We need to know the person we are giving everything to is worthy of it. But this isn\u2019t just in a romantic relationship this is also for friendship and family. It is just how we humans behave.<\/p>\n

You have to earn trust and if you do something that hurts the bounds of trust it can take a long time if ever, for you to get it back. Some people can never overcome the trust issue once broken.<\/p>\n

Talk to each other and communicate. Tell your partner what you want in your relationship and vice versa. This way there is no chance that either of you will not know what the other expects.<\/p>\n

Tell them how you\u2019re feeling and don\u2019t wait for them to ask what are you feeling or what\u2019s wrong. No-one wants to be in that zone and we are not in high school anymore.<\/p>\n

Spending time together and it doesn\u2019t always have to be the \u201ctime of you life\u201d kind of time, but quality time which is essential. It\u2019s time that you\u2019re enjoying each other\u2019s company. From sitting quietly \"chilling<\/a>reading a novel to shaking the bed like crazy. Don\u2019t get into a pattern of being sloths on the couch watching re-runs of old TV shows till its time for bed. You can come up with better things to do than that.<\/p>\n

Cook dinner together<\/p>\n