Let’s start with what a bucket list is: A bucket list is a number of experiences or achievements that a person hopes to have or accomplish during their lifetime. Apparently, it formed from the saying  ‘kick the bucket’ = dying.Many people have wonderful fantasies of travelling around the world, sky diving, seeing specific monuments, learning a new language, run a marathon the list can be endless.

Unfortunately, for a lot of the above and many more activities you can include on your bucket list it can cost a fair bit of money, especially travelling the world and we all probably won’t have that opportunity in our lifetime. I’m not saying that we won’t travel, holidays are one of the best things to do and are so enjoyable but you may not get to see every country that you would like to as our beautiful world is quite big.

Whilst you can still have your bucket list for adventure why not also make up a sexual bucket list. Anyone who is sexual should have a sexual bucket list, it doesn’t matter if the things you have on your list are to be done alone, with a friend or lover or any kind of device that you want.

Here we have listed a couple of adventures or experimental ideas that we came up with around the office. Whilst a lot of people may include many of the suggestions that we have listed as every day or once a month normal activities in their sex lives, other people may still have them as fantasies that they would like to try at least once, and maybe twice before they ‘kick the bucket’.

Bondage – With the help of the Fifty Shades of Grey a lot more bondage and restraint play has been introduced into many bedrooms around the world. It may be a light form of bondage to a far more extreme play. It is completely up to the individuals on what they would like to add to their bucket list.

You could have something as simple as being blindfolded and teased to being completely restrained by cuffs or hogties to bed restraints and letting your lover do whatever they want to you. Letting them be in complete control over your pleasure and/or pain.

Threesome – It doesn’t matter what kind of dynamic you want in the threesome as long as it adds up to 3 people. There is no right or wrong sexual orientation with a threesome it is about having fun with 2 extra people. How you want to play it out is up to you of course. If you want all the attention on you, equally shared or just want to watch. Remember it is your bucket list so the choice is yours.

Voyeurism – Weather you want to watch or have someone watch you the thrill can be intense. If it is open and you are putting on a show for one or more people or if it’s doing something a little naughty in a public place where the thrill of someone walking past and seeing gets you going.

Role play – We used to play cops and robbers, cowboy and Indians, doctors and nurses when we were kids with not a sexual thought in our minds but now it is a whole new story, and a fun one at that. There are so many different costumes you can dress up from the safe examples above to cosplay where you dress up as your favourite character.

School girl and teacher, secretary and boss or go a little further if you wish. It can be sweet, a little or major kinky.

Same sex experience – You may not want a threesome but you may want to play with the same sex all by yourself and why not, experimenting can be extremely satisfying. This is usually high up on a woman’s list more than for the guys.

Make your own porn – You might want to be a little careful with this one, that is if you don’t want to make it a public viewing. If you want to make your own porn for your own viewing make sure you keep the copy of it stored somewhere safe with a password to open it. Even if you are in a committed relationship I would still recommend making sure no copies are made or shown to mates.

But if you are okay with it being viewed by one or by many then go for it. Especially if it is a bucket list item you are doing things before you kick the bucket. Maybe you may have a stipulation with your partner, that it can only be viewed by others once you are gone.

Anal Sex – It doesn’t matter if you are practicing anal sex right now, may be a little scared of it or want to only try it once. The only thing we highly recommend is that you make sure you use lubricant and relax, this way you are sure to enjoy yourself.

Role Reversal – If you are in a heterosexual relationship this could be when the woman take control of the bedroom fun from something as simple as being a little more dominant to the sex act of pegging. This can provide a couple of different bucket list items to be ticked off, the male having anal sex, being dominated by a female and the female penetrating a male.

There are so many exciting adventures to be had in your everyday sexual life, why not just add a couple more.

If you think that we have missed any please let us know and email us at service@femplay.com.au so that we can include them.

Have fun and be safe!