Sometimes you come across an article or a study that has been published which you may find interesting if not only for the shock value but also the disbelief that someone or a group of scientists etc are telling you something about yourself that you don’t necessary agree with.

I came across a paper published in the journal of Clinical Anatomy where they believe that we should not be using the terms vaginal or clitoral orgasms but we should be only be using the term female orgasm.

Incredibly, they not only believe that vaginal orgasms are a myth but they also believe that woman do not have clitoral orgasm or a G-Spot. However they do believe when it comes down to reaching a female orgasm it is by clitoral stimulation only.

Whilst I agree not all women can achieve orgasm via penetration alone and may require a little extra attention elsewhere which may include clitoral stimulation. I would think this mean that they are reaching an orgasm via their clitoris?! This doesn’t means the clitoris has to have direct stimulation it is whilst they are being penetrated that the penis can touch or tease the clitoris and provide an orgasm.

As stated the paper disagrees and believe that women can not orgasm without direct stimulation to the clitoris, but I have to disagree with this.

I have been known on occasion to sneeze and have a mini orgasm. How lucky am I! There have also been other occasions that have made me so horny beyond control that one has simply happened. Not huge screaming “oh my god” orgasms but still it’s an orgasm that leaves me satisfied. We all have to remember that the mind and body can do some wonderful things.

A lot of women also achieve orgasms when they are exercising their pelvic floor muscles, with and without kegal or ben wa balls. You may know them as the kegal exercises and if you can orgasm and exercise at the same time, how perfect is that?!

Other myths they believe need more scientific research about is female ejaculation, premature ejaculation (they are not just picking on the girls) and G-spot amplification. They believe all of these have no scientific basis to prove that they exist. I am surprised that they haven’t listed the P-Spot to be a myth as well.

Whilst the G-Spot may be elusive to some people, this doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Once you finally do hit that G you will understand and agree that it is there and that you do receive a different kind of pleasure from it.

I often wonder how they research this information, sometimes they do state that they have had 1000 subjects and then provide the statics on what they wanted to write the paper about.

How do they pick the people who are going to do the research and how honest are they going to be. Some people are quite private about their sex life and will always be, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t have an amazing sex life and who orgasm like crazy vaginally, clitoral and any other way.

We are all individuals and experience and enjoy sex in different ways, there is no need to do research to say that you have had an orgasm. You just know it. Oh, and it feels good.