Here at Femplay, we’re all about using adult toys with your partner to bring extra fun into the bedroom. We’ve written before about how kinky we’re becoming behind closed doors, and obviously we love that sex toys are becoming more mainstream. But did you know that there are sex toys that will actually make you a better lover?
Our adult shop carries a couple of products that are fun to use, but they’re even more fun to put aside; you’ll be able to surprise your partner with your improved skills. Try out the products below on your own, and then be sure to schedule a date night in with your partner.
For Her
It’s pretty much common knowledge that as women age, we lose the elasticity in our vaginas resulting in a looser, less intense experience for our male partners. Regardless of how many children you’ve had or how big your partner’s penis is, rest assured there IS a way to tighten back up.
You might have heard about kegal exercises. They work by contracting the pelvic floor muscles; those are the muscles help to grip onto your partner’s penis during sex and give him a mind-blowing sensation. And it’s not just about his pleasure; kegal exercises also enhance your arousal and increase blood flow, resulting in better orgasms for you, too! Now it’s easier and more fun than ever to give your downstairs a workout.
Meet the Evi silicone kegal exerciser. The Evi is NOT a vibrator; after all, it is exercise and requires you to do some work. This hands-free device stimulates your g-spot and clitoris when inserted into the vagina. As you perform those kegal exercises, the Evi massages your g-spot and clitoris, bringing you to an intense orgasm.
You’ll actually want to do your kegal exercises thanks to the amazing solo fun it provides, but sex with your partner will also become more intensified. He’ll be so blown away that first time you use your strengthened muscles to really grip onto his penis during intercourse, it will feel like you’re new lovebirds again. Make sure to keep the Evi as part of your regular routine, despite your partner trying to get you off course (and between the sheets). Remember, the Evi is like the treadmill: for the results to last, you have to keep up with it!
For Him
It happens to every guy, that humiliating moment when you lose your load way too early during sex. It’s not only embarrassing, it starts to mess with your head. All of a sudden, your anxiety about coming too soon becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, or—even worse—you can’t even get hard because you’re too consumed with worry. Eventually, you and your partner stop having sex altogether.
Thankfully, there is a sex toy that will give you practice at holding off and delaying orgasm. The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is the little secret of the best lovers out there. All of the Fleshlight products are great for masturbating, but the Stamina Training Unit (STU) was specially designed to create the most intense experience possible, allowing you to practice effectively.
When using the STU, play around with different rhythms, depths, and force of thrust. Eventually, you can find your personal optimal performance, allowing you to become a more patient and satisfying partner. As with all Fleshlight products, you will experience the most pleasurable orgasm with it, and know that however long you last using your STU, you can go twice as long in bed with your partner.
After a couple weeks of practice with the STU, you’ll be ready to grab your girl and take her to bed for hours. She will be more than just surprised; she’ll be out-of-her-mind orgasmic!
If you want to become a better lover, check out these products from Femplay and more! We’re the best sex toy retailer in AU.