Playing with yourselfWhatever you want to call it, it has been around a long time and has been depicted in art since prehistoric times including rock paintings of male masturbation and a clay figurine from the 4th millennium BC from a temple site of Malta depicts a woman masturbating. However male depictions are far more common.
No it’s not putting your washing on the line. It is something a little more kinky.
Pegging is when a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a dildo. This can be with a strap-on which is like a harness worn by the woman or strapless dildos which are worn internally by the women either vaginally or anally or both.
The pleasurable aspects for a woman is that her genitals may get direct stimulation from the base of the dildo when using a traditional strap on, and vaginal and/or anal enjoyment when using an internal vibrator maybe used for more pleasure. Other pleasure for the woman is also the feeling of having power over the man, dominating him.
Not all women can achieve the climax they desire from intercourse alone and may require a little more help to get there. This is where adding sex toys into your sex life can help you achieve that incredible O.
You may be using them solo at the moment and want to introduce the fun into the bedroom with your partner or you both could be new to using sex toys and you are not sure how to approach the subject.
This can be a very sensitive topic for some people with their partner’s. So many things go through your mind when you know you want to approach this subject.
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So what are Kegel Exercisers and why are so many people talking about them!? Let’s first call it something that we all know; Pelvic Floor exercises. This is when you repeatedly contract and relax the muscles in your pelvic floor, which are commonly known as Kegel Muscles.
Why exercise these muscles? Firstly, to keep any muscle strong and healthy you need to exercise it. The Kegel Muscles are important because they are ever so valuable when it comes to the pleasures of sex. Contract and release your muscles whilst your partner is inside you…he will love it and so will you.
Unfortunately, these muscles can suffer even if we exercise on a regular basis. One of the main culprits is child birth, as this can cause urinary incontinence. So what are we to do?
I want to run my tongue all over your body and make you squirm…
Dirty Talk can include sweet nothings whispered in your ear with not so dirty phrases and words a little dirtier involving swear words and slang words. Which one is right for you?
The softer version is a great way to start dirty talk if you haven’t included it in your bedroom activities before. Beginning with words and phrases that you are already comfortable with and know they work and then you can gradually add a few choice naughty words here and there during sex.