So many things cause couples to drift apart, am I right? The stress of jobs, time-consuming activities with kids, or maybe you just get out of the habit. Whatever has caused you and your partner’s relationship to cool down, we have three ways to heat it back up! Continue reading Bring the Spark Back Into Your Relationship
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Recently single? Then you need to try this…
We’ve all been there after a break up: that horrible low point where you find yourself with a tub of ice cream in bed, bingeing on ‘Bridget Jones’, pillowcase streaked with mascara.
Let this be your intervention: you are better than rubbish television and frozen dairy. Stand up and stand tall! You don’t need a guy—just a couple of batteries and your new friend, the Ultra Seven Hummer G-spot Vibrator. There’s no better way to move on from your old beau and regain that pep in your step than a vibrator. Now you can get off and get that rosy glow without ever having to hear, ‘sorry, babe…’ Read on to find out more about this awesome toy and how it can help you today. Continue reading Recently single? Then you need to try this…
Are we becoming a little kinkier in the bedroom?
With the little tease of the trailer that has been recently released for the movie “Fifty Shades of Grey” it made me think…
Have we all got a slight kinky side to us just lying dormant waiting to come out? Or are we happy with conventional sex, also know as ‘Vanilla Sex’?
The first thing we need to find out is what is ‘Vanilla Sex’? This can depend on different cultures and individuals but a lot of people believe it to be that you only have sex in the missionary position. Others may believe that it is sex which does not include sex toys, role playing or any kind of bondage also know at BDSM which includes light bondage, leaving a little room for oral sex and mutual masturbation.
But ‘Vanilla Sex’ is not for everyone and they need a little more so people have been using sex toys alone or in a relationship for years adding a little spice to the bedroom.
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Why you should have sex right NOW…
Straight off the mark it is great exercise. Your respiratory rate rises which means you are burning away some of those unwanted calories. Heavy breathing raises the amount of oxygen in your cells, and the testosterone produced during sex keeps your muscles strong. And sex is the most enjoyable form of exercise around. You can burn 5 calories per min, the longer the session the more calories you burn.
And, what a fun way for relieving stress! Dopamine is a substance in the body that fights stress hormones and sex is a great way to get the endorphins flowing during a hot and heavy session. Feel the stress just melt away whilst you are in each other’s arms.
‘I have a headache’ should be an excuse to have sex as it is a pain reliever. It also can diminish period paid during a cramping episode.
The Art of Seduction
Firstly you need confidence and a little playfulness. You don’t want to come across as needy as the more desperate you are the less attractive you will become.
You may like to keep them guessing be being a little risqué or doing something unexpected. Keep a little mystery with your seduction techniques.
Be playful with flirting, a slight touch or a little teasing with a seductive smile. Don’t be too serious as it is almost like a game. Studies have found that a playful attitude makes people more attractive.
People are more likely to give their phone number to someone who uses humour to woo them. Being able to make fun of yourself can also show that you can take a joke even if it’s about yourself.
Body language plays a large part in seduction. Move confidently, if you look like you’re sure of yourself other people will notice. But don’t be too cocky as this can really turn people off. Using your body also comes into effect with the flirting process with touching someone. This is also a great way if you are not an expert in word play.