Firstly you need confidence and a little playfulness.  You don’t want to come across as needy as the more desperate you are the less attractive you will become.

You may like to keep them guessing be being a little risqué or doing something unexpected.  Keep a little mystery with your seduction techniques.

Be playful with flirting, a slight touch or a little teasing with a seductive smile.  Don’t be too serious as it is almost like a game.  Studies have found that a playful attitude makes people more attractive.

People are more likely to give their phone number to someone who uses humour to woo them.  Being able to make fun of yourself can also show that you can take a joke even if it’s about yourself.

Body language plays a large part in seduction.  Move confidently, if you look like you’re sure of yourself other people will notice.  But don’t be too cocky as this can really turn people off.  Using your body also comes into effect with the flirting process with touching someone.  This is also a great way if you are not an expert in word play.

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