With the little tease of the trailer that has been recently released for the movie “Fifty Shades of Grey” it made me think…

Have we all got a slight kinky side to us just lying dormant waiting to come out? Or are we happy with conventional sex, also know as ‘Vanilla Sex’?

The first thing we need to find out is what is ‘Vanilla Sex’? This can depend on different cultures and individuals but a lot of people believe it to be that you only have sex in the missionary position. Others may believe that it is sex which does not include sex toys, role playing or any kind of bondage also know at BDSM which includes light bondage, leaving a little room for oral sex and mutual masturbation.

But ‘Vanilla Sex’ is not for everyone and they need a little more so people have been using sex toys alone or in a relationship for years adding a little spice to the bedroom.

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