International Women’s Day

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Today is International Women’s Day and what better time to speak about empowering ourselves, the strong independent women that we are. Empowering ourselves, personally and sexually. It doesn’t matter if we’re in a relationship, single or something in between we have the choice to invest in our own personal being and this includes our sexual health and happiness.

Unfortunately even though we are in 2017, the 21st century a time were women are more confident and educated a lot of us still feel shame, guilt and embarrassment when it comes to owning a sex toy. They are our hidden little secret that we don’t talk about to our girlfriends and sometimes even our partners.

We are doing ourselves an injustice by not owning up to the fact that we may have one, two or a collection of toys in our bedroom. Toys can provide you with an abundance of pleasure by yourself or with someone else. Alone we can explore our own bodies and find those perfect sweet spots and simply let them envelope our minds. With a partner we can let them explore our bodies and we theirs. This can lead to more intimate sexual fun and pleasure and open a whole new world of sensuality overload that is beyond comprehension.

I am proud to admit that I have a trunk of pleasure toys in my bedroom. I play with them alone and with my partner, he likes to take out different ones whilst I am away and have them ready on the bed with a sexy little number for our hot session for the night. I never know what goes through his mind sometimes when he is preparing everything, but it makes for an interesting and satisfying evening.

Whilst we may not all have partners that we feel comfortable with telling them that we have toys or that we want to include toys in our sexy sessions, I suggest that you at least try to breach the subject with them.

This is the perfect time to speak with your girlfriends and ask their opinions on the quest at hand. What have they done, do they play with toys with their other halves and if so how did they bring it up with them. We can’t let our girl-ship get away from us, embrace it. They are just like us, women who, whilst confident and strong need each other sometimes for support and comfort and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact it’s the total opposite, it’s totally right.

We are women and as such we understand each other’s weakness and faults and shouldn’t be sceptical about sharing them with each other. We are here to love each other, hold each other up and stick together through all the boy/girl stuff.

So the next time you have a girls night why not breach the subject of toys and see where it leads, I believe that every sexually active young adult has at least one sex toy in the bedroom. The only problem is that most people won’t admit to it. So don’t go in thinking they haven’t got one, the chances are higher that they do have a few.

The # for today is #BeBoldforChange why not include this in our sexuality. Be Bold, Be Strong, Be Confident, Be Sexual, Be in charge of you. Why not work out together the right vibe for you as a couple, this can get you both excited.

Happy International Women’s Day