Few things bring a couple together like sparking things back up in the bedroom and having consistently great sex, and sex is never quite as exciting as when it gets kinky. If you agree with me and are looking for some new gear to play with or are just starting out and don’t know what the must-have toys and accessories for a kinky couple are, read on. There’s a lot to discover and plenty of different things to explore, so follow your heart and get something that excites you.
Tie it Up with Bondage Gear
The variety in bondage gear is astounding, and if you’re inexperienced with it, you might not know where to begin. Fortunately, the basics are simple. You’re going to want some comfortable and easy to use restraints to get started. I recommend handcuffs and ankle cuffs, because there’s no trick at all to using them—just slap them on and get busy!
Beyond the basics lie a lot of really fun accessories. Those who want to completely immobilise their partners should look into getting a full under-the-bed restraint kit or another type of all-in-one bondage kit. Nipple clamps are a great option, too, simply because of the intense feeling they produce! They walk that sensual line between pleasure and pain like no other sex toy.
Get Stronger with Kegel Exercisers
Kegel exercise isn’t technically a couples’ activity, but exercising your pelvic floor muscles makes sex so much better that it’s worth looking at. While the basic Kegel exercise doesn’t require any equipment, if you want to really work them out, you should look at Kegel exercisers; like Ben Wa balls and Luna beads. Keeping up with Kegel exercises is especially important to keep you sexually fit enough for those marathon kinky sex sessions.
Keep Things Moving with the Right Lube
Although you (or your girl) will be plenty wet while this is going on, if you’re going to be doing any anal play or even just going at it for a long time, you’ll need some lube. Otherwise, you might find yourself, shall we say, rubbed the wrong way. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to read our full guide on lube;.
Basically, lubes are made from either a base of water, silicone or oil. The one you want will depend on preference, what you’re doing and which sex toys you’re going to use. Silicone lasts longer than water based lubes but damages silicone toys. Water based lubes won’t damage silicone toys but they don’t last as long during sex and are completely useless if you’re having sex in the shower, because they dissolve in water.
Feel a Buzz with Vibrators
Vibrators have come a long way since Nan’s day, and they’re no longer relegated to solo play. Besides your standard vibrating wand, there are couples vibrators; that stimulate a penis just as much as a vagina, double-headed ones for simultaneous G-spot and clitoral or even vaginal and anal stimulation, vibrating cock rings and even remote-controlled vibes that your partner can use on you.
Most kinky couples would be particularly interested in trying out the remote-controlled vibrators, especially while in bondage. You’d be amazed at how hot it gets when one of you has the other bound and at their mercy with a vibrator. For example, you could keep him or her at the edge of orgasm for ages…
It’s impossible to tell exactly what you’d like as a couple since kink is so varied, but these toys and accessories are almost universal. You’d be hard pressed to find a sexually open individual who couldn’t get off on most of the items on this list, and maybe you’ve had some inspirations of your own while reading it. Now the big question is, why aren’t you having sex right now?